Stepping up to the first hole and seeing five different sets of tee markers can be more intimidating than the opening shot itself. Choosing the wrong set leaves you either hitting driver-wedge a dozen times or feeling completely overpowered, neither of which is a recipe for a good time. This guide gives you simple, effective ways to determine the right tees for your game, ensuring you find the perfect balance between challenge and enjoyment every time you play.
Why Tee Box Colors Don't Tell the Whole Story
For decades, golf has used a color-coded system: red for ladies, white for seniors/average men, blue for skilled men, and black or gold for the pros. Let's be perfectly clear: this system is outdated and often misleading. Thinking in terms of "men's tees" or "ladies' tees" is a quick way to play from the wrong spot.
Today, with a greater focus on growing the game, courses have introduced multiple teeing options to accommodate a wide range of skill levels. You might find courses with Green, Silver, Copper, or combo tees. There's no industry standard for what these colors mean in terms of difficulty. On one course, the Blue tees might be 6,500 yards, at the course down the road, they could be a much more manageable 6,100 yards.
Therefore, your first step is to ignore the colors and the old labels. The only things that truly matter are the numbers on the scorecard: total yardage, course rating, and slope. The most important of these, and the easiest to use, is total yardage.
The Go-To Method: Using Your Driver Distance
The simplest and most reliable way to choose your tees is by using your average driver carry distance. This is your foundation. The key here is to be brutally honest with yourself. This isn't your 'once-in-a-lifetime' smashed-downwind-downhill drive. This is the distance you carry your driver on an average, solid strike.
Once you have that number, you can use it to find a recommended total course yardage. The goal is to play a course length that allows you to have a mix of mid-to-short irons for your approach shots on par 4s. Swinging a 3-wood into every green is nobody's idea of fun.
Here’s a simple reference chart to find your ideal starting point:
- You carry your driver 275+ yards: Look for tees between 6,700 and 7,100 yards. You have the power to handle longer par 4s and reach par 5s in two.
- You carry your driver 250 yards: Look for tees between 6,200 and 6,700 yards. This is often the "Blue" or "Championship" tee at many public courses and is a sweet spot for a lot of solid amateur players.
- You carry your driver 225 yards: Look for tees between 6,000 and 6,400 yards. At this length, you won’t feel like every par 4 is a marathon and you'll have more birdie opportunities.
- You carry your driver 200 yards: Look for tees between 5,800 and 6,200 yards. This range, frequently the "White" or "Club" tees, offers a comfortable-but-fair challenge.
- You carry your driver 175 yards: Look for tees between 5,200 and 5,800 yards. You'll hit a greater variety of clubs and face fewer forced carries over water or bunkers.
- You carry your driver under 175 yards: Any set of tees under 5,200 yards is your playground. Golf becomes much more enjoyable when you have a realistic chance to get on the green in regulation.
Let's say you're a golfer whose average drive carries about 220 yards. Based on the chart, you should be looking for a set of tees right around 6,100 yards. When you look at the scorecard, you see the White tees are 6,150 yards and the Gold tees are 5,700 yards. The Whites are the perfect fit. Don't ego-lift your way back to the 6,600-yard Blue tees, you're just setting yourself up for a long, frustrating day.
A Deeper Dive: Using Your 5-Iron Distance
If you want a slightly more nuanced approach, the "Rule of 36" is a fantastic method used by many golf instructors. It focuses on your 5-iron because it's a great representative of your mid-iron game - the clubs you'll be using for many of your approach shots.
How the "Rule of 36" Works
The formula is simple and elegant:
(Your Average 5-Iron Carry Distance in yards) x 36 = Your Ideal Total Course Yardage
Let's walk through an example. Pretend you consistently hit your 5-iron about 160 yards in the air.
160 (yards) x 36 = 5,760 yards
With this calculation, you should scan the scorecard for a set of tees listed closest to 5,760 yards. This method ensures that the course length scales directly to your iron-play ability, which is a great indicator of how "playable" a course will feel. It’s designed to give you a healthy mix ofiron shots into greens, rather than forcing you to hit hybrids and fairway woods over and over again.
One of the big advantages of this method is that many golfers have a more realistic idea of their 5-iron carry than their driver carry. A driver might get launched with a huge roll-out that disguises its actual carry distance, but an iron shot's total distance is much closer to its carry distance. It's a more honest number.
The Most Important Question: Are You Having Fun?
Metrics and formulas are great starting points, but they don't account for the most important factor: enjoyment. Golf is supposed to be FUN. The concept of "Tee It Forward" has gained huge momentum for this very reason. It encourages golfers of all skill levels to play the course at a length that is aligned with their average hitting distance, ahem, not their ego.
Let’s speak plainly about the ego. There's often pressure, especially when playing with a new group, to step back to the "championship" tees to prove you belong. But ask yourself this: What sounds more fun?
Option A: Playing from 6,800 yards, hitting woods and long irons into most greens, fighting to make bogey, and ending the day with asore back and a high score.
Option B: Playing from 6,200 yards, having wedges and short-irons into greens, making a handful of pars and maybe a birdie, getting out in 4 hours, and having a great story to tell at the 19th hole.
For almost every amateur golfer, the game is more enjoyable from shorter tee boxes. You'll have more birdie putts, you'll lose fewer balls, the pace of play will be faster, and you'll go home happier. Before settling on a tee, ask yourself what the goal of the round is. If you're playing in a serious club championship, you might have to play a designated set. But if you’re out for a casual weekend round with friends, always opt for the set of tees that promises the most enjoyment, not just the biggest challenge.
How to Use the Scorecard for More Clues
Yardage is king, but the scorecard has two other numbers that can serve as a tie-breaker: Course Rating and Slope Rating.
- Course Rating: This number tells you what a scratch golfer (a player with a 0 handicap) would be expected to shoot on a good day from that set of tees. A course rating of 72.1 means a scratch player would average about 72.1 strokes. If you’re a 15-handicap, you’d expect to shoot around 87 (72 + 15).
- Slope Rating: This number indicates the relative difficulty of a course for a bogey golfer (around an 18-handicap) compared to a scratch golfer. The average slope is 113. A higher number (e.g., 135) means the course gets significantly harder for higher-handicap players. A lower number (e.g., 105) means the difficulty is more consistent across all skill levels.
You don't need to overthink these numbers, but they can be helpful. If you’re trying to decide between two sets of tees with similar yardages, a quick glance at the slope can be revealing. Let’s say the White tees are 6,000 yards with a 115 slope, and the Gold tees are 5,800 yards with a 128 slope. Even though the Gold tees are shorter, the higher slope rating suggests they might play significantly tougher for an average golfer, likely due to more hazards, forced carries, or trickier greens from those angles.
Final Thoughts
Choosing the right tees isn't about pride or tradition, it’s about setting yourself up for success and putting the 'play' back in 'playing golf'. By using your average driver distance or the "Rule of 36" with your 5-iron, you can take the guesswork out of the equation and select a yardage that gives you a fair test without unnecessary frustration.
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