Walking onto the first tee with sweaty palms, worried if you’ll be a good playing partner... or even be asked back again? We’ve all been there—trust me! The real trick to feeling comfortable isn't about hitting perfect shots; it's about how you handle yourself and how prepared you are to play. This guide explains the simple rules of the road to help you play golf while staying calm, relaxed, and focused... and having a lot more fun while you’re at it. You'll play with confidence and make friends along the way!
A bad first tee shot is often caused by feeling rushed or unprepared, which puts you in the wrong headspace for the round. You can dodge this entire dilemma by taking a few simple steps before you even get to the course. This will get you in the right mindset to hit great shots, enjoy the day, and not be embarrassed by your performance.
Most courses have a dress code, which is generally pretty casual. However, it’s easy to feel out of place if you show up in a t-shirt and jeans. You can never go wrong by wearing a collared shirt (like a polo) and a pair of khakis or shorts. Just avoid cargo shorts or gym shorts! You'll also need a pair of golf shoes, which are different from sneakers—they have more tread to keep your feet stable as you swing. Most importantly, the right attire helps you stay comfortable and focused. Instead of worrying about whether you "look the part," you can just think about golf.
The easiest way to start the round feeling stressed is to be rushing to the first tee after checking in with only moments to spare. That’s more pressure than any golfer needs. Try to show up at the course about 30 minutes before your tee time. This gives you plenty of time to:
When this is all done, you can head to the first tee with your mind in the game, not feeling stressed or rushed.
If there’s one surefire way to bother other golfers, it’s playing slowly. The interesting thing is, pace of play has very little to do with how well you hit the ball. Instead, it’s all about being ready to hit your shot when it’s your turn. This keeps the game moving and helps you avoid holding up the group behind you.
"Ready golf" simply means that you play when you are ready, rather than strictly following the "honors" tradition (where the player with the best score on the previous hole tees off first). Here’s what that looks like in practice:
The most enjoyable golf partners aren’t always the ones hitting the best shots. They’re the ones who are relaxed, decisive, and don’t take five practice swings before every shot. You need a pre-shot routine that gets your mind right, but keep it short, sweet, and efficient:
You don’t have to stand over the ball forever. By the time you step up to it, you should already know your target and the club you need. Now, it’s time to trust your preparation and swing away!
Some of golf’s most important rules aren’t in any rulebook. They are simple courtesies that make the game more enjoyable for everyone. Most of it is common sense, but here are a few easy ways to be a great playing partner:
When you hit an iron from the grass, you'll often take a divot. Taking a moment to replace the patch of turf will help it grow back faster, ensuring the next player has a good lie. If you can't replace the divot, use the seed mix provided in the golf cart to fill the hole.
Another way to enjoy your round is to avoid blow-up holes. A few bad shots in a row is a surefire way to get frustrated and slow everyone down. This doesn't have to happen. Just focus on playing smart shots instead of "hero" shots to make the game simpler and less stressful.
You're going to hit it into the trees or behind a hazard—it happens to everyone. The temptation is to try a miracle shot over or through the trouble. This is a common mistake! Instead, ask yourself, "What’s the smartest play here?" Often, it means chipping back out to the fairway to give yourself a clear next shot. It might feel like you're giving up a stroke, but in the long run, it can save you from a much higher score. This is how you avoid those big, frustrating numbers.
Let’s say you’re 160 yards from the green with a water hazard in front. Your best 5-iron goes about 160 yards. You could hit it perfectly and clear the hazard, but if you hit it just a little thin, you’ll end up in the water. In this situation, the smart play might be to take a 6-iron and aim for a safe spot, even if it's not directly at the pin. This takes the uncertainty out of the shot, allowing you to swing with more confidence.
Every golfer, even the pros, hits bad shots. It’s inevitable. The difference between a good day and a bad day isn’t whether bad shots happen, but how you react to them.
After shanking a drive, it’s easy to be hard on yourself. But while you’re dwelling on it, everyone else has already moved on. They aren’t analyzing your mistake—they’re thinking about their own next shot. You should do the same. The best golfers have a "goldfish memory"—they forget the bad shot the moment it’s over and focus on what's next.
If golf were easy, it wouldn't be nearly as rewarding. It’s a challenging game that requires patience and perspective. Remember to enjoy the walk, the company, and the good shots, no matter what your final score is.
The secret to confidence on the golf course comes from preparation, not perfection. Knowing basic etiquette, playing "ready golf," and making smart decisions will help you feel comfortable and enjoy the game far more than hitting a few lucky shots.
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