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How to Make Golf Fun Again

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

Dragging your bag to the car after a round feeling more frustrated than fulfilled? We’ve all been there. Golf can turn from a relaxing escape into a grueling-four-hour test of mental fortitude. This guide is your way back to enjoying the game. We're going to give you practical, on-course strategies and mindset shifts to ditch the stress, quiet the self-criticism, and remember why you started playing in the first place.

Ditch the Scorecard, Find Your Freedom

This is the single most powerful thing you can do to change your relationship with golf. For your next round, leave the scorecard in the clubhouse. Leave the stat-tracking app in your pocket. Just... play. The goal is not to post a number, the goal is to experience the game.

Without the constant tally of strokes haunting you, something shifts. You start to see the course differently. You notice the way the light hits the trees on the back nine. You enjoy the walk. Most importantly, you free yourself to swing without fear. A bad shot is no longer a “bogey” or a “double” - it’s just one shot. Hit it, find it, and hit it again.

How to Play a "Freedom Round"

  • Play Twilight Golf: Head out for the last 9 holes of the day when the course is quiet. The pressure is off, and it's just about you, the ball, and the sunset.
  • Declare a "No Score" Round: If playing with friends, agree beforehand that nobody is keeping a formal score. This takes the competitive anxiety out of the equation for everyone.
  • Focus on a Sensation: Instead of focusing on score, pick one thing to feel. Maybe it's a smooth tempo in your swing or the sensation of making solid contact. Make that the goal of the round, not the final tally.

Playing without a score strips golf down to its purest form: hitting a ball in a beautiful park. It reminds you that the number on the card isn't who you are. It’s just data from one day, and you can choose to ignore it.

Rethink "Par" – Create Your Own Game

Stop measuring yourself against the PGA Tour standard. "Par" on the scorecard is an arbitrary number set for elite, scratch golfers. For the vast majority of us, chasing that number on every hole is a recipe for disappointment. The solution? Create your own par.

This is a mental game-changer. If you typically shoot a 90 (an average of 18 over par on a par-72 course), then a bogey is actually a good hole for you. A par is fantastic! So, reframe what success looks like.

Steps to Create Your Personal Par:

  1. Know Your Average Score: Be realistic about your game. If you're a 20-handicap, your target score on a par 72 is 92.
  2. Set Your Per-Hole Goal: An average score of 92 means you're averaging a bogey, or "one-over," on nearly every hole. So, your "personal par" for a par-4 is a 5. Your par for a par-3 is a 4.
  3. Keep Score Against Yourself: A 5 on a par-4 is now an "even" for you. A 4 feels like a birdie! When you make a 6, you're just "one over" your personal par. This system keeps you engaged and rewards you for playing to your ability, not a Tour pro's.

This simple shift turns golf from a game of constant failure into one of achievable success. You are no longer "failing" to make pars, you are succeeding at making your bogeys.

Play Different Formats – Scramble Your Way to Fun

The grind of playing your own ball stroke after stroke can be draining. Introducing team formats is an incredible way to inject low-pressure fun and camaraderie into your round. You only have to hit a few good shots to be a hero, and the bad ones are quickly forgotten.

Try These Fun Formats:

  • The Scramble (Two-Person or Foursome): This is the classic fun format. Everyone on the team tees off. You then pick the best shot out of the group, and everyone plays their next shot from that spot. You repeat this process until the ball is in the hole. It eliminates the pressure of bad drives and allows everyone to contribute.
  • Shamble (or Texas Scramble): A slight variation on the Scramble. Everyone tees off, you pick the best drive, and then everyone plays their own ball into the hole from that spot. It maintains some individual challenge on approach shots while still taking the pressure off the tee shots.
  • Best Ball (or Fourball): Each player plays their own ball from tee to green on every hole. At the end of the hole, you simply record the lowest individual score from your team. This format lets you play your own game but with a safety net, if you have a blow-up hole, your partner can bail you out.

Change Up Your Scenery (and Your Gear)

Routine can be the enemy of fun. If you’re playing the same 18 holes, from the same tees, with the same 14 clubs every single weekend, it can start to feel like work. Introduce some novelty.

Shake Things Up With:

  • Play a Par-3 or Executive Course: These shorter courses take the driver out of your hands and focus on iron play and the short game. They are quicker, lower stress, and a fantastic way to sharpen the scoring part of your game without the pressure of a 6,800-yard monster.
  • Move Up a Tee Box: Swallow your pride and play from the forward tees for a round. Hitting wedges instead of 6-irons into greens is a completely different (and often more fun) experience. It gives you more birdie chances and can build a ton of confidence.
  • Try a Half-Set Challenge: Leave half your clubs in the car. Pick 7 clubs (e.g., driver, 4-iron, 6-iron, 8-iron, pitching wedge, sand wedge, putter) and go play. This forces you to get creative, learn to hit “in-between” shots, and removes the mental clutter of having too many options. You think less and just play golf.

On-Course Side Games: The Ultimate Fun Injector

For those with a competitive spirit, changing how you compete can make all the difference. Instead of grinding for the lowest gross score, try a points-based game that rewards aggressive play and good shots, while not punishing bad holes as severely.

Check out these Games:

  • Stableford Scoring: This is a popular points system. Instead of counting strokes, you earn points based on your score relative to par (use your real handicap or your "personal par" system). A common setup is:
    • Double Bogey or worse: 0 points
    • Bogey: 1 point
    • Par: 2 points
    • Birdie: 3 points
    • Eagle: 4 points
    The goal is to get the highest total score. A triple bogey doesn't ruin your round - you just get 0 points and move on.
  • Skins: A hole is won outright by the player with the single lowest score on that hole. If two or more players tie, the "skin" carries over to the next hole, making the following hole worth two skins. This adds excitement and makes every hole a standalone contest.
  • Wolf: A fantastic game for a foursome. The teeing order rotates on each hole. The player teeing off first is the "Wolf". On the tee, the Wolf can either choose to a) play 1-vs-3 against the other players, or b) choose one of the other players as a partner for the hole (2-vs-2). You have to declare your partner immediately after they hit their tee shot. The team with the lower best-ball score wins the hole and the points. It's a game of strategy, risk, and constantly shifting alliances.

Focus on the Little Victories

Golfers have a terrible habit of only remembering their worst shot of the day. You could hit 80 shots, but the one you’ll be replaying in your head is the topped 3-wood or the chunked chip. To make golf fun again, you have to consciously flip that script.

Start celebrating the good stuff, no matter how small. Did you pipe a drive right down the middle? Give yourself a mental high-five. What about that clutch 5-foot putt you made to save your personal par? That’s a win. The perfectly crisp 7-iron that landed on the green, even if it was 30 feet away? Awesome shot.

By forcing yourself to acknowledge and enjoy these small successes, you change the entire emotional narrative of your round. It becomes a collection of positive moments instead of a highlight reel of your mistakes. Golf is hard. Be kinder to yourself. Appreciate the moments of quality because, in a game of imperfections, those are what truly matter.

Final Thoughts

Making golf fun again isn’t about some huge swing change or finding a secret, it's about changing your perspective. By shifting your goals, ditching the scorecard, trying new formats, and celebrating the small wins, you can transform golf from a stressful obligation back into the fantastic game and escape it’s meant to be.

A lot of the anxiety in golf comes from uncertainty - standing over a shot and not being sure what club to hit or what the right play is. This paralyzes you and drains the fun from the game. We designed Caddie AI to be your on-demand expert, removing that guesswork. You can get instant, smart advice on course management, club selection, and even how to play a tricky lie by just snapping a photo. Giving you that extra confidence lets you commit to every shot and get back to simply enjoying your time on the course.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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