Walking up to the tee box, that simple question can sometimes feel a bit awkward: So, who's up? Deciding the order of play isn't just about politeness, it's governed by specific rules and long-standing golf traditions. This guide will walk you through the official rules for determining who hits first, the common practices you'll see in a casual round, and why the order of play actually matters for your game.
The Official Rule: Earning "Honors"
In the official lingo of golf, the right to play first from the teeing area is called having the "honor." The process for determining who has the honor is outlined clearly in Rule 6.4 of the Rules of Golf. It’s a system designed to be fair and is used in all formal competitions, from your local club championship to the U.S. Open.
Starting the Round: The First Tee
On the very first hole of a round, there's obviously no previous hole to base the order on. So, how is it decided?
- In a Competition: If you're playing in an organized tournament, the order of play is set by the organizing committee. They produce a draw or a timesheet, and you will normally play in the order your names are listed on the scoresheet. Easy enough.
- In a Casual Round: For a friendly game with your buddies, the official rule states that the order should be decided by "lot." This just means using a random method. You're probably already familiar with these, even if you didn't know you were following the Rules of Golf! Common methods include:
- The Tee Flip: A classic. Someone tosses a tee in the air and lets it fall to the ground. Whomever the tee head points to (or is closest to) goes first. You can repeat this until the full order is set.
- Revealing Tees: Someone grabs four tees (one for each player) and conceals the heads in their fist, leaving just the bottoms showing. Each player picks a tee, and the person with the uniquely colored or marked tee wins the honor.
- Rock, Paper, Scissors: Good for more than just deciding who buys the first round of drinks.
Ultimately, any random method you and your group agree upon is perfectly acceptable for deciding the initial order on the first tee.
During the Round: Subsequent Tees
This is where "earning" the honor comes into play. After the first hole, the order of play for every subsequent tee shot is based entirely on the scores from the previous hole.
The player with the lowest gross score (your actual A-to-B strokes) on the hole just completed has the honor on the next tee. The player with the second-lowest score goes second, and so on.
Example: Let's say on a par-4, your group scores the following:
- Player A: Birdie (3)
- Player B: Par (4)
- Player C: Bogey (5)
- Player D: Bogey (5)
On the next tee box, the order would be: Player A hits first, then Player B. Since Player C and Player D tied, their order doesn't officially matter, but typically they would decide between themselves or just play when ready.
What Happens in Case of a Tie?
What if two or more players have the same lowest score on a hole? Great question. In this case, there is no change to the previous order. The player who had the honor on the last tee retains it.
Example: Player B had the honor on the 7th tee. On that hole, both Player B and Player C make a par 4, which is the low score for the group. Because they tied, Player B keeps the honor and will tee off first on the 8th hole.
How Teeing Order Works in Different Formats
While the basic principle of "low score plays first" remains, the application can change slightly depending on the format of golf you're playing. It's helpful to know these distinctions, especially for match play.
Stroke Play vs. Match Play
In standard stroke play (which most of us play), you are counting every single shot, and honors are based on the individual gross score on the previous hole, as described above.
In match play, the "score" is about winning, losing, or tying individual holes. Therefore, the honor is decided by who wins the hole, not by the low-ball stroke total.
- The player or side that wins a hole gets the honor on the next tee. It doesn’t matter if they won with a birdie-3 verses a par-4 or a bogey-5 verses a double-bogey-6. A win is a win.
- If a hole is tied (called "halved" in match play), the honor does not change. The player or side that had the honor on the previous tee keeps it.
Team Formats (Foursomes and Fourball)
In team games, a similar logic applies. Honors are determined by the team's performance, not an individual's.
- Foursomes (Alternate Shot): The team with the lowest score on a hole earns the honor for the next tee. Since there's only one ball in play per team, this is very straightforward.
- Fourball (Best Ball): It's based on whichever team had the single lowest individual score on the hole. For example, if on Team 1, Player A makes a 4 and Player B makes a 5 (low score is 4), and on Team 2, Player C makes a 5 and Player D makes a 6 (low score is 5), then Team 1 has the honor on the next tee.
The Most Important Unwritten Rule: Ready Golf
You’ve learned the official rules, but if you've played any amount of public golf, you know that practice doesn't always follow the letter of the law. And for good reason: pace of play. Constantly waiting for the person with the honor to find their tee and get set up can seriously slow down a round. This is where "Ready Golf" comes in.
Ready Golf is a simple, common sense approach: hit when you are ready, as long as it is safe to do so. It’s an etiquette widely encouraged by golf courses and governing bodies to keep the game moving.
Examples of playing Ready Golf include:
- The player with the honor is still charting their yardage, but you're all set. You simply ask, "Bob, you mind if I go?" and hit away.
- Two players are on one side of the tee box, and another player is ready on the far side. That ready player hits first to save time walking back and forth.
- A short hitter tees off first, even without the honor, while a longer hitter waits for the green to clear.
The golden rule of Ready Golf is to be considerate and aware. Never hit if another player in your group is in the middle of their pre-shot routine or obviously preparing to swing. A quick verbal confirmation ("I'm going to jump ahead here") is always a good practice. In casual play, Ready Golf should be your default setting after the first tee. You can still acknowledge the person with the official honor - a simple "You have the honor, Jane" - before a ready player steps up to hit.
Why Does the Order of Play Matter, Anyway?
Beyond tradition and rules, the order of play can have some interesting effects on the game, particularly from a strategic standpoint.
Strategic Advantages
In a tight match or a competitive stroke play round, going first or last can be a real factor.
- Playing First: Hitting before your opponent(s) is an opportunity to apply pressure. A powerful, accurate drive smoked down the middle of the fairway can mess with the mindset of the player who follows. They now feel like they have to "match" your great shot, which can induce tension and mistakes.
- Playing Last: Hitting after everyone else gives you valuable information. Did your opponent hit a great shot you need to answer? Or did they block it into the trees? If they hit into trouble, you might choose a less aggressive play - maybe a 3-wood instead of a driver - to simply ensure your ball is safely in the fairway. Going last gives you the ability to react to what has already happened.
Pace and Flow
As we've covered, efficiency is the main reason groups abandon strict honors in favor of Ready Golf. A round of golf flows much better when players hit as they become ready, preventing those awkward lulls where three people are just watching one person go through their full routine. Getting the process right keeps everyone active, engaged, and gets your group around the course faster, which is something everyone can appreciate.
Final Thoughts
Ultimately, knowing who hits first on the tee is about finding a balance between respecting the game's official rules and using common sense to keep your round moving. On the first tee, use a random method, and for the rest of the round, award the honor to the player with the low score from the previous hole - but in a friendly round, don't be afraid to embrace "Ready Golf" to maintain a good pace.
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