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What Flex Should I Use in Golf?

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

Choosing the right shaft flex for your golf clubs can feel like trying to solve a code, but getting it right is one of the quickest ways to add distance, accuracy, and a better feel to your game. This guide will walk you through exactly what shaft flex is, how to find out which one you need, and the performance differences you can expect on the course. We’ll skip the overly technical jargon and give you simple, direct methods to find your perfect match.

What is Shaft Flex and Why Does It Matter?

In simple terms, shaft flex is the degree to which a golf shaft will bend during your swing. Think of it like a fishing rod, when you cast, the rod bends back and then ‘whips’ forward to launch the lure. A golf shaft does the same thing, loading with energy on the downswing and then unloading it through impact, kicking the clubhead into the ball with extra speed.

Finding the right amount of 'bend' for your swing is where the magic happens. A shaft that flexes correctly for your swing speed and tempo will:

  • Deliver the clubface to the ball squarely more often, which tightens your a accuracy big time.
  • Optimize launch angle and spin rate, helping you hit the ball on its ideal trajectory for maximum carry distance.
  • Provide a solid, responsive feel at impact, which builds confidence on every shot.

On the other hand, a mismatch between your swing and your shaft flex can cause all sorts of problems. A shaft that’s too stiff won't bend enough, making it feel like swinging a steel pipe. This often leads to a low, weak fade or slice and a significant loss of distance because the shaft doesn't 'kick' at impart. Conversely, a shaft that’s too flexible will bend too much, causing an inconsistent, “whippy” feel. This often results in high, ballooning shots that lose distance in the wind or snap-hooks as the clubhead flips shut too quickly through impact.

The Different Types of Golf Shaft Flex

Golf shafts generally come in five main flex categories. Understanding what each one is designed for is the first step in narrowing down your search.

Extra Stiff (X or XS)

Who it's for: These are for the fastest, most powerful swingers out there - typically professional players or high-level amateurs. Think of golfers who swing their driver well over 105 mph and generate immense clubhead speed.

What it does: An Extra Stiff shaft minimizes bending to provide maximum stability and control for those who bring their own power. It helps produce a lower, more piercing ball flight and reduces spin.

Stiff (S)

Who it's for: This is for strong amateur golfers who swing their driver with considerable speed, usually in the 95 to 105 mph range. It’s a popular choice for confident a single-figure handicap players.

What it does: Like the Extra Stiff, the Stiff flex offers control and a lower trajectory than a Regular flex. It gives a powerful player the stability they need without feeling overly rigid, allowing them to swing aggressively without the fear of the shaft twisting or becoming unstable.

Regular (R)

Who it's for: The most common flex, built for the average male golfer. This player typically has a driver swing speed in the 85 to 95 mph range. If you're not sure where you stand, this is often the default starting point for many men.

What it does: Regular flex offers a great balance of forgiveness and control. It's designed to help the average swing speed generate a bit more clubhead speed through the "whip" effect, encouraging a mid-to-high ball flight to maximize carry distance.

Senior (A or M)

Who it's for: This flex is designed for golfers with slower swing speeds, usually in the 75 to 85 mph range. It’s not just for seniors, any player, male or female, with a more moderate tempo can benefit from it.

What it does: Formerly called ‘Amateur’ or ‘Mature,’ the Senior flex is more flexible than Regular. This extra bend helps golfers with less natural speed generate more loft at impact and launch the ball higher, which is necessary to achieve optimal carry distance when speed is lacking.

Ladies (L)

Who it's for: The most flexible of all the standard shafts, this is built for golfers with the slowest swing speeds, typically below 75 mph. While named ‘Ladies,’ it’s suitable for any player, including juniors or men with very slow swings, who need maximum help getting the ball airborne.

What it does: The high level of flexibility provides a significant kicking effect at impact. This helps maximize launch angle and clubhead speed for players who don’t generate much on their own, making the game more enjoyable by helping them get the ball up and away.

How to Figure Out Your Ideal Shaft Flex

Okay, now for the practical part. How do you find out where you fit? Here are three straightforward methods, ranging from the most accurate to a simple on-course observation.

Method 1: The Swing Speed Test (Most Accurate)

Your clubhead speed is the single most reliable indicator for choosing the right flex. If you have access to a launch monitor at a driving range, golf store, or during a lesson, this is the best way to get a definitive answer. Here’s a general guide for what your driver swing speed suggests:

  • 105+ mph: Extra Stiff (X)
  • 95-105 mph: Stiff (S)
  • 85-95 mph: Regular (R)
  • 75-85 mph: Senior (A or M)
  • Below 75 mph: Ladies (L)

Remember, this is a starting point. An aggressive, fast-transitioning swinger might go up a flex, while a smooth, deliberate swinger might go down one, even if their speeds are the same.

Method 2: Use Your Driver Carry Distance (A Good Estimate)

Don't know your swing speed? No problem. The distance you consistently carry your driver (how far it flies in the air, not total a distance with roll) is a great substitute. It’s a direct result of your swing speed, so it offers good reference.

  • Over 275 yards: Extra Stiff (X)
  • 240-275 yards: Stiff (S)
  • 200-240 yards: Regular (R)
  • 180-200 yards: Senior (A)
  • Under 180 yards: Ladies (L)

Be honest with yourself here! This isn’t about your career-best drive, it’s about your average, solid strike. Using your typical carry distance will give you a much more reliable recommendation.

Method 3: Observe Your Ball Flight (The On-Course Detective)

Your golf ball tells a story on every shot. If you don't have access to your numbers, paying attention to your typical miss can provide strong clues about your shaft flex.

Signs your shaft is too stiff:

  • Low Trajectory: Your shots struggle to get airborne and often have a weak, low flight.
  • The Right Miss (for a right-handed golfer): You frequently fade or slice the ball. A stiff shaft doesn't kick enough to help square the face, often leaving it open at impact.
  • Harsh Feel: Shots feel boardy or dead, even when you strike them well. You feel like you have to swing your absolute hardest to make the club perform.

Signs your shaft is too flexible:

  • Ballooning Ball Flight: The ball shoots up very high and seems to hang in the air before falling down with little forward roll, especially into the wind.
  • The Left Miss (for a right-handed golfer): You have a tendency to hook the ball. The overly flexible shaft whips too much, causing the clubface to shut down too early.
  • Inconsistent, "Whippy" Feel: It's hard to feel where the clubhead is during your swing, and your impact feels uncontrolled or unpredictable.

Beyond the Basics: Other Factors for a Deeper Dive

While swing speed is the main character, a few other elements play a supporting role. If you find yourself on the border between two flexes, considering these can help you make the final call.

  • Tempo: How you create speed matters. Two golfers can have the same 100 mph swing speed, but one might have a slow, smooth takeaway and a gradual build-up of speed (think Ernie Els), while the other has a fast, aggressive transition from the top (think Jon Rahm). The aggressive player often benefits from a stiffer shaft for stability, while the smooth player might prefer the feel of a softer one.
  • Feel is Personal: At the end of the day, you have to like the way the club feels. Golf is a confidence game. The numbers might suggest a Stiff flex, but if a Regular flex feels better in your hands and gives you the confidence to make a great swing, it might be the right choice.
  • Why a Professional Fitting is the Gold Standard: If you're serious about optimizing your gear, a professional club fitting is the ultimate answer. A skilled fitter won’t just look at flex. They’ll also analyze other important shaft properties like weight, torque (resistance to twisting), and kick point (the place where the shaft bends most) to find the absolute perfect shaft that complements every aspect of your individual swing.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right shaft flex comes down to matching the shaft's engine to your unique swing. By using your swing speed, carry distance, or typical ball flight as your guide, you can eliminate the guesswork and select equipment that is truly tailored to help you play your best golf and enjoy the game more.

Once your equipment is dialed in, making smarter decisions on the course is the next layer to improving your scores. For that, we built a tool that acts as your personal caddie and coach. Caddie AI gives you expert-level strategy for any hole, helps you choose the right club for a specific distance, and can even analyze a photo of a tricky lie to recommend the best way to play it. It's designed to give you clarity and confidence over every shot so all you have to focus on is the swing itself.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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