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What to Say to a Golfer for Good Luck

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

Knowing what to say to a golfer just before they head out for a round can feel a little tricky. A simple Good luck! works, but the best messages offer genuine support without accidentally adding pressure. This article provides a complete playbook of what to say - from simple, supportive wishes to more insightful, golf-specific encouragement - so your words genuinely help them play their best.

Why a Simple "Good luck!" Can Fall Short

Golf is a famously mental game. The six inches between the ears is often called the most important real estate on the course, and for good reason. Most golfers are walking to the first tee with a mix of excitement and anxiety, trying to calm their nerves and focus their minds. The last thing a player needs is more pressure, even when it’s well-intentioned.

For some superstitious golfers, the phrase "Good luck" itself can feel like a bit of a jinx. They believe golf is a game of skill, not luck, and that saying it diminishes the work they've put in. For others, it’s a bit hollow, it’s the standard thing people say when they don’t know what else to say.

The goal isn’t to wish they get lucky bounces or have putts miraculously drop from 50 feet. The goal is to put them in a positive, process-oriented mindset where they can trust their abilities and handle whatever the course throws at them. The right words can do just that.

For Non-Golfers: Simple & Safe Encouragement

You don't need to be a scratch golfer to offer a meaningful message. If you’re sending off a friend, spouse, or colleague, the best approach is to keep it simple, positive, and focused on enjoyment, not results. These are can't-miss options.

"Play well!"

This is arguably the gold standard. It’s concise, positive, and focuses on the *process* of playing, not the final score. It expresses a hope that their swing feels good, their shots fly true, and they execute their game plan. It’s respectful and shows you get it. You can never go wrong with a simple "Play well."

"Enjoy the round!" or "Have a great walk!"

This is a great option because it shifts the focus away from performance entirely. It reminds the golfer that, at the end of the day, golf is a game meant to be enjoyed. Spending four hours outdoors on a beautiful course is a privilege in itself. "Enjoy the walk" is a classic line that shows a little inside knowledge, as it acknowledges the simple pleasure of an outing on the links. This is especially good for a casual weekend round.

"Hit 'em straight!"

A true classic. It’s lighthearted, universally understood, and brings a smile. Everyone in golf is trying to hit it straight, so it's a way of saying "I hope you have the day you're hoping for." It implies good shot-making and successful play without getting bogged down in the specifics of a score.

For Fellow Golfers: Speak Their Language

When you're wishing another golfer well, you have the advantage of being able to tap into the shared mindset of the game. You can go beyond the generic pleasantries and touch on the mental challenges you both know all too well. This shows a deeper understanding and provides more meaningful support.

Focus on Internal Cues and Mindset

The best golfers are focused on things they can control. Their thoughts, their routine, their commitment level. Your encouragement can help reinforce that focus.

  • "Trust your swing." Every golfer has spent time working on their swing. But on the course, doubt is a constant enemy. A tiny bit of second-guessing can lead to a tentative swing and a poor result. This simple phrase reminds them that the work is done and now is the time to trust their body to do what it knows how to do. It’s a message of confidence.
  • "Stay in the moment" or "One shot at a time." This is probably the most valuable advice in all of golf. It’s easy to start reeling after a bad hole or get ahead of yourself during a great one. A reminder to stay grounded in the present shot - the only one that matters - is powerful. It helps them reset and prevents the classic blow-up hole that starts with one bad shot and snowballs into five.
  • "Commit to your shots." Indecision is a round-wrecker. Standing over a ball while debating between a 6-iron and a 7-iron is a recipe for disaster. The best play is always the one you are 100% committed to. This phrase tells your friend to pick their club, pick their target, and make an assertive swing. It gives them permission to be decisive.

Focus on the Process, Not the Score

Good scores are a byproduct of a good process. Help your fellow golfer focus on that.

  • "Just find the center of the face." At its core, that’s all golf is. Forget about score, swing planes, and trying to shape the ball. This advice strips away all the noise and brings the focus back to a simple, physical feeling. It's a reminder to keep things simple: good contact is the foundation of every good shot.
  • "May the bounces be with you." This is a fun, slightly humorous way to acknowledge that golf isn’t entirely within our control. Sometimes a great shot gets a bad kick into a bunker, and a bad shot gets a great kick back into the fairway. This phrase wishes them the good side of that luck, and it's something every golfer can appreciate.

Before a Tournament or Competitive Round

When the pressure is genuinely on, the messages need to be even more carefully considered. The player is already feeling the weight of the moment, so your job is to lighten the load, not add to it.

  • "The hard work is done, now go have fun." For anyone playing competitively, they’ve likely spent weeks or months preparing. This acknowledges their effort and reframes the event not as a tense final exam, but as a chance to showcase their work and enjoy the fruits of their labor.
  • "Play your game." In a tournament setting, it’s easy to get distracted by what playing partners are doing, especially if they are long hitters or making a lot of putts. "Play your game" is a reminder to stick to their own strategy, play their own strengths, and not get suckered into trying shots that aren't comfortable for them. It’s about blocking out the noise.
  • "Focus on what you can control." This is a powerful message for a high-pressure situation. You can’t control what your competitors do, the weather, or a bad bounce. You *can* control your pre-shot routine, your attitude, your target, and your commitment. This puts the power back in their hands and reduces anxiety about external factors.

What NOT to Say: The Unforced Errors to Avoid

Just as important as knowing what to say is knowing what *not* to say. Sometimes, trying to be too specific or helpful can backfire by planting a negative thought or adding a layer of expectation. As a coach, I see this all the time. Here are some things to avoid.

  • "Don’t hit it in the water on 17!" You think you're being funny, but the brain has a hard time processing a negative command without first visualizing it. You've just forced them to picture the very disaster they're trying to avoid. Never introduce a negative thought, even as a joke.
  • "Don't leave any putts short." Again, you're placing a specific command on them. Now, instead of just focusing on their putting routine, they might have "don't leave it short" bumping around in their head, causing them to jam the putt 10 feet past the hole. Let them focus on their feel.
  • Asking about a target score: "Go shoot a 75 today!" Good intentions, but now you've anchored them to a specific number. If they get off to a rough start, they may feel like they've already failed. If they're playing well, they might get tight as they get close to that number. Focus on the process, not the outcome.
  • Last-minute swing advice: "Remember to keep your head down!" Unless you are their coach and this is a pre-arranged swing key, keep swing thoughts to yourself. The time for lessons is on the range, not the first tee. A last-second mechanical thought is the fastest way to scramble a golfer’s brain and destroy any natural feel they had.

Final Thoughts

Wishing a golfer well is about offering quiet confidence and positive reinforcement. The best send-offs are simple, free of expectations, and direct the player’s focus toward things they can control - like their mindset and their commitment - rather than the unpredictable nature of luck or a final score.

Keeping things simple and trusting your plan on the course is one of the pillars of good golf. That's why we're building tools like Caddie AI. By giving you a smart, simple strategy for every hole and shot you face, my goal is to help you step up to every swing with clarity and confidence. When you eliminate the guesswork, you can commit to your shots and focus on what matters most: playing great golf and enjoying the walk.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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