That awkward, gangly feeling in your golf swing can be one of the most frustrating things in the game. You step up to the ball, try to repeat what you’ve practiced, and something feels… off. It might feel jerky, unbalanced, weak, or just plain weird. This feeling usually comes from a few common disconnects between what your body is trying to do and what it *should* be doing. This guide will break down the most likely reasons your swing feels awkward and provide a clear, step-by-step roadmap to get it feeling smooth, powerful, and natural again.
The 'Weirdness' Factor: Why Great Golf Doesn't Feel 'Normal'
First, let's get something straight: A fundamentally sound golf swing is supposed to feel a little weird, at least at first. Unlike throwing a ball or swinging a baseball bat, the golf posture and motion are unique. Think about how you set up to the ball: you're bent over from the hips, you stick your bottom out, your arms hang straight down, and then you try to rotate your body around your spine a stable, athletic base. There isn't another activity in daily life that mimics this!
Many new golfers (and even experienced ones struggling with their swing) stand too upright or don't lean over enough because it feels more "normal." They try to use their arms to chop at the ball in an up-and-down motion. But power and consistency in golf don't come from chopping, they come from rotation. The swing is a rounded action, a fluid turn of the club around your body, powered primarily by your torso and hips - not just your arms.
So, the first step is to accept that "awkward" might just mean "unfamiliar." That strange feeling of leaning over pointed at the ground is the a starting a position for building a swing that is both repeatable and powerful.
The Foundation is Shaky: Your Grip and Setup
More often than not, an awkward feeling starts before you even move the club. Your grip and your setup are the foundation of your entire swing. If they're off by even a little bit, your body will spend the rest of the swing trying to make awkward compensations to get the club back to the ball.
Fault #1: A Bad Grip Forces a Bad Swing
Your hands are your only connection to the club, think of your grip as the steering wheel. If it’s not right, you'll be fighting the club the whole way. A common mistake is holding the club too much in the palm of the hand (like a baseball bat), which severely limits your wrist action and kills your power. Another issue is a "strong" grip (hands rotated too far away from the target) or a "weak" grip (hands rotated too far toward the target), both of which force you to make unnatural moves to try and square the clubface at impact.
How to Build a Neutral, Functional Grip:
- Start with your lead hand (left hand for righties). Place the club diagonally across the fingers, running from the base of your pinky to the middle of your index finger. Don't put it in your palm.
- Close your fingers first, then fold your hand over the top. When you look down, you should be able to see the first two knuckles of your lead hand. Anymore, and your grip is likely too strong, any less, and it’s too weak.
- Look at the "V." The 'V' shape formed by your thumb and index finger should point roughly toward your trail shoulder (your right shoulder for a righty).
- Add your trail hand (right hand for righties). Place the palm of your trail hand over the thumb of your lead hand - its lifeline should cover your lead thumb. The trail hand also holds the club in the fingers. You can use an interlocking, overlapping, or 10-finger grip, whatever feels most secure is fine.
A word of warning: If you've been playing with a bad grip for a while, a correct, neutral grip will feel extremely awkward at first. Stick with it. This initial discomfort is the price of admission for a swing that can work correctly without compensations.
Fault #2: An Unstable or Un-Athletic Setup
Your setup primes your body for the motion it's about to make. A poor setup - bad posture, incorrect balance, or faulty ball position - sets you up for an awkward, inefficient swing.
How to Build a Solid, Balanced Setup:
- Start with the club head. Place the club face squarely behind the ball, aiming at your target. This is your anchor point.
- Bend from the hips. Keeping your back relatively straight, lean your upper body forward from your hips (not your waist). You should stick your bottom back as a counterbalance until your arms can hang down naturally and relaxed below your shoulders.
- Establish your stance width. For a-mid-iron, your feet should be about shoulder-width apart. This creates a stable enough base to allow your hips to turn freely. Too narrow and you lose balance, too wide and you can't turn.
- Check your balance. Your weight should be centered, feeling evenly balanced between your left and right foot and the balls and heels of your feet. You should feel relaxed but athletic, ready to move in either direction.
- Mind your ball position. For short and mid-irons (like a 9-iron to a 7-iron), the ball should be in the center of your a stance. As you move to longer clubs like a 5-iron or hybrids/woods, the ball should move progressively forward, with the driver being placed off the inside of your lead heel.
The Sequence is Scrambled: Putting the Pieces in the Wrong Order
If your grip and setup are solid, but the swing *still* feels clunky, the problem likely lies in your swing sequence - the order in which your body parts fire. An awkward feeling often comes from parts trying to do their job too early or too late.
Fault #3: A Jerky, Hands-First Takeaway
An awful lot of golfers initiate the swing by snatching the club away with just their hands and arms. This immediately disconnects the arms from the body, gets the club out of position, and forces a desperate re-routing on the downswing. The first a few feet of the backswing should be a "one-piece" a takeaway.
How to Start with Proper Tempo:
From your solid setup, the first move away from the ball should engage your shoulders, chest, and hips all moving together. As you rotate your torso away from the target, the arms and club simply go along for the ride. As the club gets about parallel to the ground, you can then allow a natural, gentle hinge in your wrists. This keeps everything connected and sets the club on the right path.
Fault #4: Unwinding From the Top
This is perhaps the single biggest killer of good golf swings. "Casting" or "coming over the top" is when a player's first move from the top of the backswing is to throw their hands, arms, or shoulders at the ball. It feels like you're trying to inject power, but it actually destroys your sequence and robs you of speed.
The downswing should start from the ground up. You’ve rotated back, loading your weight onto your trail leg. To start down, the first move is a subtle shift of your weight and hips toward the target. This "bump" creates space and drops the club onto the correct shallow path. Only *after* that move do you begin to powerfully unwind your torso and hips, pulling the arms and club through. When you get this sequence right, the club feels like it's whipping through impact effortlessly.
The Telltale Unbalanced Finish
An awkward swing rarely ends in a beautiful, balanced final pose. If you find yourself falling backward, stumbling to the side, or finishing with all your weight on your back foot, it's a dead giveaway that something went wrong during the swing.
A good swing flows all the way through to a full finish. Think about what that looks like on TV: a player's belt buckle and chest are pointing at the target (or even left of it), their trail foot heel is completely off the ground, all of their weight is supported by their lead leg, and the club has wrapped around their body. They are totally balanced.
How to Practice a Better Finish:
Make a committed practice swing with one single thought: hold your finish for five seconds without moving. Can you do it consistently? This forces your body to execute a sequence that allows for a stable finish, promoting full rotation and proper weight transfer through the ball.
Final Thoughts
An awkward golf swing isn’t a permanent condition, it’s almost always feedback that something in your fundamentals - grip, setup, sequencing, or balance - is out of place. By systematically checking these building blocks and understanding how a golf swing is a rotational motion around your body, you can confidently turn that clunky, weird feeling into a smooth, coordinated, and powerful swing.
Pinpointing the real root cause can be tough when you’re out on the course and feeling lost. It's for this very reason that my teammates and I developed Caddie AI. You can use it as your own personal 24/7 golf coach, when your swing starts to feel weird, you can ask for immediate advice and feedback. It cuts through the confusion and gives you a clear actionable advice so you can stop guessing and start building a swing you can finally trust.