Why I Love Golf Essay

Thinking about golf often brings up a tug-of-war of emotions. It’s a game of blissful afternoons and downright maddening frustration, sometimes on the very same hole. Yet, for so many of us, the love for the game always wins out. This is my attempt to explain why, a deep dive into the specific feelings, mechanics, and moments of clarity that make this challenging pursuit so profoundly rewarding. We are going to walk through the elements of the game, from the way you stand over the ball to the final, balanced pose, and uncover the simple beauty hidden within each step.

It All Starts with a Solid Foundation

One of the first things you notice about experienced golfers is how they stand. It’s a posture you don't see anywhere else in life, and for many newcomers, it feels incredibly awkward. But for me, the beauty of the golf swing begins right here, in this seemingly strange setup. Leaning forward from the hips, pushing your bottom out, and letting your arms hang down freely creates an athletic, powerful base. This isn’t just about looking the part, it’s about preparing your body for what’s to come. This position is the foundation for consistency and power.

The process is simple but deliberate. You start by placing the club head directly behind the ball, aimed squarely at your target. This is the first anchor point. Then, you build the stance around it. As you bend over from your middle, your rear naturally shifts back, and your arms find their natural hanging point. If I were to draw a line from my shoulder, my arm would hang straight down. This is the position that allows your body to work freely. Players who don't lean over enough restrict their motion and kill their power before the swing even begins.

Then comes the stance width. It’s not about finding a rigid, prescribed width, it’s about feeling stable. A good starting point is to have your feet about shoulder-width apart. This creates a base that is wide enough to let you turn and generate power, but not so wide that it locks up your hips. Most importantly, with this athletic posture, you have to relax. Tension is a swing killer. I know it feels strange - many golfers I coach initially feel self-conscious - but when they see themselves on video, they see a golfer, ready and balanced. The feeling of settling into this powerful, calm stance over the ball is one of the quiet joys of the game a deep love for the repeatable process of building a solid foundation from scratch before every single shot.

The Connection in Your Hands

Your hands are your only connection to the golf club. Think of them as the steering wheel. How you place them on the grip has an enormous influence on where the clubface points at impact, which in turn dictates where the ball goes. Getting this part right isn't just a technical detail, it’s about taking control, and that feeling of control is something to love. When your hold is off, you’re forced to make all sorts of last-second manipulations during the swing to try and hit the ball straight, making a difficult game even harder.

So, how do we create this connection? We want the hands to work together in the most neutral, natural way possible. Start with your top hand (left hand for righties). As you bring it to the club, your palm is slightly facing inward - we want to keep that. The club shouldn’t be in your palm but held more in the fingers, running from the middle of your index finger to the base of your pinky. When you fold your hand over, you should be able to look down and see about two knuckles. A great checkpoint is the “V” formed by your thumb and index finger, it should point up towards your right shoulder.

The bottom hand marries up to the top hand in a similar fashion. Bring it to the side of the grip so the palm is faced slightly inwards, towards the target. An easy way to position it is to let the lifeline of your right palm sit snugly on the side of your left thumb. Then, just wrap the fingers around. Whether you interlock, overlap, or use a ten-finger grip is a matter of personal comfort. The important part is that both hands are on the club in a neutral position, ready to deliver a square clubface without any extra effort. It feels bizarre at first, but once you find this hold, you feel connected. You realize you have the steering wheel firmly in your grasp, ready to guide the shot.

A Rotational Dance Around Your Body

The most common misconception I see, especially with newer golfers, is thinking the golf swing is an up-and-down motion. They see the ball on the ground and instinctively want to chop at it, a swing powered entirely by their arms. But the real golf swing, the one that produces power, accuracy, and consistency, is not a chop, it’s a turn. I love this idea: the swing is a rounded action, a rotational motion of the club that moves in a circle-like manner around the body.

This motion is powered by your core - the big muscles of your torso. As you turn your shoulders and hips away from the ball in the backswing, the club and arms simply come along for the ride. To start the swing, there’s no big lift or heave with the arms. It’s just a turn. As the chest and hips begin to rotate, the club starts back. To help get the club on the right path, all you need is a slight hinge of the wrists early in the takeaway. This tiny move sets the club on the correct plane, preventing it from swinging too far inside or getting lifted too vertically.

From there, you just keep turning. You want to rotate within a cylinder - imagine two lines rising from the outside of your feet. You're turning your body inside this space, not swaying outside of it. You turn as far as you comfortably can. For some, that's a huge, winding turn, for others, it's much shorter. That doesn't matter. What matters is that you've coiled your body, loading up power like a spring. The unwind, then, is simply the mirror image. You uncoil your hips and torso, and the club follows the same rounded path down to the ball. The beauty is in its simplicity. When you stop trying to *hit* the ball and start trusting the *turn*, the club just does the work. It’s a wonderful, powerful feeling to let your body lead this circular dance.

The Sweetness of a Pure Strike

There are few feelings in sports as satisfying as a purely struck iron shot. It’s that crisp “thump” sound, the sensation of the ball compressing against the face, and the perfect divot appearing just ahead of where your ball once was. This is the moment we all chase, and achieving it comes from one key sequence in the downswing. It’s not about trying to lift the ball in the air, it’s about hitting down and through it.

It all begins right at the very top of the backswing. We've coiled our body, and now it’s time to unleash that stored energy. But before the big uncoiling, there is one small, subtle move. The first action in the downswing is a slight shift of weight to your front foot (your left foot for a righty). This little bump forward with the hips is what enables you to strike the ball first, then the turf. Without it, you’re likely to hit the ground first (a "fat" shot) or catch the ball on the upswing (a "thin" shot).

Once that slight forward move has happened, the rest is just letting go. You unwind your hips and torso with speed, letting all the rotation you created in the backswing come undone. The club whips through, propelled by your body, not your arms. You’re not trying to scoop the ball into the air, you trust the loft of the club to do that work for you. Your job is simply to move your weight forward and turn through. When you get this sequence right, the low point of your swing naturally occurs a few inches in front of the ball. The result is pure compression. The love for this sensation is primal - it’s the audible and tactile proof that for a fleeting moment, you did everything right.

Elegance in the Final Pose

The finish position is often overlooked. After a shot, many golfers are so fixated on the ball's flight that they collapse out of their posture immediately. But to me, the finish is the signature on a well-executed swing. Holding that balanced, poised finish isn't just for style points, it’s tangible proof that you committed to the shot and transferred all of your energy through the ball and towards the target.

As the club moves through impact, the rotation doesn't stop. You keep turning your body - hips, torso, shoulders - all the way until your chest is facing your target. To make this happen, something has to give, and that’s your back foot. The heel comes off the ground, and your foot pivots up onto its toe as almost all of your weight - I'd say about 90% - transfers to your front foot. This is why a stable base at setup is so vital. It allows you to make this aggressive turn and weight transfer without losing your balance.

As the body turns through, the arms extend out towards the target. This feeling of full extension is a sign that you didn't hold anything back, you released all your power into the shot. From this fully extended position, the arms then naturally fold and the club comes to rest behind your head or over your shoulder. You’re left standing tall on your front leg, balanced, with your body facing the target. I encourage every golfer I work with to hold this finish. Hold it with pride, regardless of where the ball ends up. It teaches balance, discipline, and commitment. It’s the final, beautiful frame of a fluid motion and a clear declaration of intent.

Final Thoughts

The love for golf, for me, comes from the deeply rewarding feeling of piecing these elements together. It’s the constant process of learning, the quiet confidence of a solid setup, the feeling of control through a proper hold, and the pure, exhilarating sensation of a powerful, balanced swing culminating in a perfect strike. It's a game of small victories that build on one another.

Feeling that satisfaction has become so much easier, too. I use tools like Caddie AI to bridge the gap between knowing what I should do and actually doing it. You get instant, simple advice right on the course for tricky shots or tee-box strategy, which takes so much of the guesswork away. And off the course, it's like having a 24/7 coach you can ask anything, from "why am I slicing?" to "what's the smart play on a high-risk par 5?". It helps you focus on what really needs work, making your practice more effective and the game much more enjoyable.