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How to Deal with Slow Golfers

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

There’s nothing quite like it: you’re standing on a beautiful tee box, the sun is shining, and you’re ready to play… but the group in front of you is taking what feels like an eternity. Slow play is one of golf's most common frustrations, turning a relaxing four-hour round into a five-and-a-half-hour march. This guide will walk you through practical strategies for handling the groups ahead, and just as important, show you how to ensure you and your group are part of the solution, not the problem.

Understanding the Reasons for Slow Play

Before we get into solutions, it helps to understand why slow play happens. While it’s easy to get frustrated, most slow golfers aren’t being intentionally inconsiderate. The delay usually stems from a few common sources.

The "Unaware" Golfer

This is often the beginner or infrequent player who simply doesn’t know the standard pace-of-play etiquette. They might not realize that spending five minutes looking for a lost ball is holding everyone up, or that taking seven practice swings over every shot isn't standard practice. They are enjoying their day, blissfully unaware of the traffic jam forming behind them. They aren't trying to be slow, they just don't know any better.

The "Tour Pro Wannabe"

We’ve all seen this player. They plumb-bob every six-foot putt, circle the green three times to read the break, and have an elaborate pre-shot routine that rivals a major championship contender's. They are so focused on replicating the process they see on TV that they lose sight of the on-course reality for everyday golfers. Their meticulous approach, while perhaps well-intentioned, can add minutes to every single shot.

Logistical Breakdowns

Sometimes, slow play has nothing to do with attitude and everything to do with poor on-course management. This looks like:

  • Leaving the cart in the wrong spot, requiring a long walk back to get it after holing out.
  • Walking to the green with only a putter, only to find their ball in a bunker and having to trek all the way back to the cart.
  • Forgetting a headcover on the previous tee and walking back to get it.

These small logistical errors domino-effect throughout the round, adding unnecessary time and effort to every hole.

On-the-Course Strategies When You're Stuck

You’ve identified the problem and you’re stuck behind a slow group. Getting angry isn't going to help your score or your blood pressure. Here’s a more productive approach.

Step 1: Relax and Reframe the Wait

Your first move should always be internal. Getting agitated while waiting will almost guarantee a bad swing when it’s finally your turn. The tension in your hands and shoulders from frustration is a recipe for a hook or a slice. Instead of fuming, use the time constructively.

  • Plan Your Shot: Take out your rangefinder, get your yardage, feel the wind direction, and decide on your club and target. When it’s your turn, you’ll be ready to go.
  • Enjoy the Scenery: You’re outside on a golf course. Take a deep breath. Look around. Remind yourself that a slow day on the course is better than a fast day at the office.
  • Practice Without Swinging: Rehearse your tempo mentally or take a slow, deliberate practice feel away from the ball. Stay loose and connected to your swing without holding up your own group.

Step 2: When and How to Respectfully Ask to Play Through

This is the most delicate part of the situation. Approaching another group requires tact. Before you do anything, use this litmus test: is there at least one full, open hole ahead of the group in front of you?

If the answer is no, and they are simply waiting on the group ahead of them, then there is nothing to be done. The course is just backed up. But if there is clear sailing in front of them, you have a solid reason to ask.

The Right Way to Ask:

Wait for a good moment, usually on a tee box where you aren’t interrupting a backswing or a shot. Drive up with a smile and keep it light and friendly.

  • "Hey guys, how's it going today? Looks like you've got some open space up ahead. Would you mind if our group plays through quickly? We'll be out of your way in a snap."
  • "Morning! Beautiful day out here. We're just a twosome and moving pretty fast. Is there any chance we could slip through on this hole?"

The key is to frame it as a friendly request, not a demand. Most of the time, golfers will be understanding and wave you through. If they decline or seem hostile, do not push it. Arguing on the course never ends well.

Step 3: Call the Pro Shop

If a group refuses to let you play through despite having open holes ahead of them, or if their pace is egregiously slow (20+ minutes per hole), your best option is to call the pro shop. This is not "tattling", this is what the course marshals and pro shop staff are for. They are trained to handle these situations diplomatically.

Simply call and explain the situation calmly. For example: "Hi, this is [Your Name], we're the group on the 7th tee. The group ahead of us has fallen a hole and a half behind, and it's really slowing down the back of the course. Would it be possible for a marshal to come out and check on the pace?"

Let the professionals handle it. It's safer and far more effective.

The Best Defense: Make Sure YOU Are an Efficient Golfer

The single best thing you can do to combat slow play is to lead by example. Mastering your own on-course efficiency not only makes the game more enjoyable for those behind you, but it will also help you stay in a better rhythm and shoot lower scores. Here are the habits of a pace-conscious golfer.

1. Embrace Ready Golf

The days of playing strictly by "honors" should be reserved for match play and tournaments. In a casual round, "ready golf" is the standard.

  • Hit When Ready: As long as you're not in someone's line of sight or about to hit while they are swinging, the first person ready should hit.
  • Go to Your Ball: Don’t wait for others to hit before walking or driving to your own ball. It saves a huge amount of time.
  • Play First, Then Search: If two of you have hit your ball into the same area but only one is visible, have the player who found their ball hit their shot *before* helping the other person look.

2. A Short, Sweet Pre-Shot Routine

Efficiency doesn’t mean rushing, it means being prepared. Do most of your thinking before you address the ball. By the time you are standing over your shot, you should have already:

  • Calculated the yardage.
  • Decided on your club.
  • Picked a specific target.

Your routine should be brief and repeatable. A good target is two practice swings and go. Standing over the ball for a minute immobilized by swing thoughts is a primary cause of slow play.

3. Master On-Course Logistics

Think one step ahead. How you manage your equipment and an electric cart plays a massive role in your pace.

  • Park Strategically: Always park your cart on the path that is closest to the *next tee box*, not behind the green you are playing. This prevents the long, time-wasting walk back to the cart after holing out.
  • Bring Multiple Clubs: When you walk to your ball around the green, take your putter and any wedge you might need (for chipping or a bunker shot). This eliminates the walk of shame back to the cart.
  • Line Up Your Putt Early: As your playing partners are putting, use that time to read your own putt from different angles. When it’s your turn, you’ll be prepared to step up and stroke it.

4. Handle the Lost Ball Correctly

Searching for a lost ball is a round-killer. Manage it properly.

  • Time It: The modern rule is a three-minute search. Start the clock. After three minutes, it’s time to move on.
  • Always Hit a Provisional: If you think your ball might be lost or out of bounds, always hit a provisional ball from the tee or fairway. It feels like it takes extra time, but it saves far more time than having to walk all the way back to the original spot.

Final Thoughts

Dealing with slow golfers is a reality of the game, but it doesn't have to ruin your day. By understanding the causes, handling on-course delays with a cool head, and leading by example with your own efficient play, you can keep the frustration low and enjoyment high.

One of the biggest time-wasters that can make us all slow at times is simple indecision - standing between clubs, questioning a strategy, or staring at a tricky shot. This is something we thought a lot about when we built Caddie AI. We made it so you can get a simple, smart plan for any shot in seconds, helping you commit faster and swing with confidence. Whether it’s getting a club recommendation or taking a quick photo of a challenging lie for instant advice, being decisive is a an easy way to speed up your game and stay in a better rhythm.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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