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How to Enjoy Golf

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

Thinking that golf's main objective is a low score is the fastest way to stop enjoying it. The real secret to loving this game isn't about chasing perfection, it's about shifting your perspective. This guide is designed to help you do just that, offering practical, coach-approved advice to help you find more fun and less frustration on the course, whether you're just starting or have been playing for years.

It Starts With Your Mindset

More than any swing tip, the biggest improvement most golfers can make is between the ears. How you think about the game directly impacts how you feel about it. Before you change a single thing about your swing, try changing your mental approach.

Forget Perfection, Embrace the Process

Golf is not a game of perfect shots. It’s a game of managing imperfect ones. Not even the best players in the world hit every shot exactly as they plan. They hit good shots, okay shots, and bad shots, just like us. The difference is that they accept this reality. They don't let one bad shot ruin the next one, or an entire round.

Instead of getting angry after a miss, get curious. Ask a simple question: "What could I try differently next time?" This simple reframing turns a moment of frustration into a low-stakes learning opportunity. The fun isn't in hitting 18 perfect shots, it’s in the ongoing puzzle of hitting a good one after a bad one and celebrating that small victory.

Set Goals You Can Actually Achieve

Walking to the first tee with the goal of "shooting my best score ever" sets you up for disappointment. A single bad hole can make that goal feel impossible, leaving you discouraged for the next 17. A better way is to focus on setting small, attainable "process goals" for each round. These are small wins to build on.

Your goals could be something like:

  • Make no double bogeys on the front nine.
  • Hit the fairway on at least half the par 4s.
  • Commit to my pre-shot routine on every putt.
  • Stick to the plan on hole #12, no matter what.

These goals are within your control. Achieving them creates a sense of accomplishment, even if your final score isn’t what you wanted. You walk off the 18th green feeling like you achieved something tangible, which is far more rewarding than fixating on a number.

Focus on the One Shot in Front of You

It's easy to stand over a putt while still mentally replaying the drive you sliced into the trees. It’s just as easy to feel pressure on a tough par 4 because you know a brutal par 3 is next. In both cases, your mind is somewhere other than where it needs to be: on the shot at hand.

Adopt a one-shot-at-a-time mentality. When you get to your ball, leave the last shot behind you. Forget what’s coming up. Your entire world, for that moment, is about planning and executing the current shot. When it's over, good or bad, it’s in the past. Walk to your next shot and repeat the process. This isn’t just a zen platitude, it's a powerful tool for reducing pressure and freeing yourself up to play better, more enjoyable golf.

Simplify Your Technique

A complicated golf swing is a fragile one. Your head can become so cluttered with thoughts - "keep your head down," "left arm straight," "start the downswing with the hips" - that you tense up and forget how to make a natural, athletic motion. The key to more consistent ball-striking, and more fun, is often found in simplification.

The Hold: Your Steering Wheel

Your grip is the only connection you have to the club, but many golfers make it far too complicated. An overly strong or weak grip forces you to make complex compensations during your swing just to get the clubface square at impact. A neutral grip is the simplest way forward because it allows the club to do its job without extra manipulation from you.

Here's a simple checkpoint. For a right-handed golfer, place your left hand on the club. When you look down, you should be able to see the knuckles of your index and middle fingers. The "V" formed by your thumb and index finger should point roughly toward your right shoulder. When you add your right hand, its "V" should also point in the same general direction. This position feels natural and promotes a square clubface through impact, taking one big variable out of the equation.

The Setup: Stand Like an Athlete

If your setup is tense and unbalanced, your swing will be too. A good setup feels stable, relaxed, and athletic, preparing your body to move freely. Think of it less like a rigid pose and more like the ready position in tennis or basketball.

Hinge forward at your hips, not your waist, and stick your rear-end out slightly. This creates space for your arms to hang straight down from your shoulders, free of tension. Your weight should be balanced over the middle of your feet, and your knees should have a slight, soft flex. It might feel a bit strange at first, but this posture puts your body in the strongest, most efficient position to make a powerful turn.

The Swing: It’s a Turn, Not a Hit

The number one mistake I see with new and struggling golfers is the attempt to "hit" the ball, usually with an arm-heavy, up-and-down chopping motion. This creates weak, inconsistent shots and requires a lot of effort. A good golf swing feels less like a hit and more like a fluid rotation.

Your body is the engine. The simple feeling you want is to turn your shoulders and hips away from the target on the backswing, and then unwind or turn your body through toward the target in the downswing. The arms and club just go along for the ride. Thinking "turn, turn" instead of "hit," you empower your big muscles to do the work, resulting in a more effortless, powerful, and repeatable motion.

Play Smarter, Not Harder

Shooting lower scores isn't always about hitting better shots. Often, it's about making better decisions. A well-managed 85 feels better and is much more fun than a wildly scrambled 82. Course management is about playing to your strengths and avoiding big mistakes.

Develop a Go-To Shot

You don't need a flop shot, a high draw, and a "stinger" 3-iron to enjoy golf. You just need one or two reliable, "old faithful" shots that you can count on under pressure. For many golfers, this is a three-quarter swing with an 8-iron or a simple bump-and-run chip with a pitching wedge. Practice that one shot until you own it. When you find yourself in a tight spot on the course, knowing you have a reliable bailout option takes the fear out of the situation and replaces it with confidence.

Course Management is Your Friend

Tiger Woods doesn't aim at every pin, and neither should you. The smart play is almost always aimed at the middle of the green. This strategy gives you the largest margin for error. A slight mishit might still find the green, just farther from the hole. An aggressive shot at a tucked pin that's slightly off-line could end up in a deep bunker or water hazard, leading to a double bogey.

Making a 30-foot putt is hard, but it’s a lot easier than trying to get up-and-down from a buried lie in the sand. Playing away from trouble and taking big numbers out of play will lower your scores and reduce on-course stress dramatically.

Don't Forget About the Actual "Game"

Finally, remember that this is a game - something you choose to do for recreation. It’s easy to get so caught up in the technical aspect of golf that we forget to appreciate the experience itself.

Appreciate the Walk and the Company

Golf courses are large, beautiful parks. Look around. Appreciate the quiet morning, the well-manicured grounds, and the fresh air. You're spending a few hours outside, walking, and talking with friends. That in itself is a win. Focusing on the scenery and the conversation is a great way to take your mind off a bad shot and put the game back in perspective.

Try Different Formats

If stroke play is grinding you down, change the game. Team formats like a scramble or best ball are fantastic ways to reduce pressure and increase the fun. In a scramble, everyone's focus shifts from their personal score to helping the team. You can swing freely, knowing a bad shot won't hurt anyone. It brings teamwork and camaraderie to an individual sport and is a refreshing change of pace.

Acknowledge the Small Successes

Your scorecard only records the big stuff, but a round of golf is filled with small victories. Did you hit a drive right down the middle? Did you hit a pure iron shot, even if it missed the green? Did you execute a smart layup shot exactly as planned? Take a moment to acknowledge and feel good about these successes. Golf gives you dozens of opportunities in every round to succeed. Celebrate them.

Final Thoughts

True enjoyment in golf comes from embracing the game for what it is: a fun, rewarding challenge, not a source of frustration. By focusing on a positive mindset, simple mechanics, smart decisions, and the experience itself, you can fundamentally change your relationship with the sport and find a lot more lasting satisfaction.

Embracing this simpler, smarter approach is easier when you have a little support. We designed Caddie AI to be that on-demand golf brain, taking the guesswork out of tricky situations. When you're standing on a tee trying to figure out a smart strategy or staring at an awkward lie in the rough and have no idea what to do, we are here in seconds to give you a clear, confident plan. It's about removing the uncertainty so you can commit to your shot and enjoy the walk.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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