Walking up to a golf course by yourself can feel daunting, but playing as a single is one of the game's greatest pleasures if you know how to approach it. Playing solo is your secret weapon for accelerated improvement, peaceful enjoyment, and ultimate flexibility. This guide will walk you through everything you need to know, from booking a tee time to confidently joining a new group and making every solo round a great one.
The Underrated Joy of a Solo Round
Before we get into the nuts and bolts, let's talk about why you'd want to play by yourself in the first place. For many, a round of golf with friends is the whole point. But a solo round offers a completely different, and equally valuable, experience. It’s your chance to play golf for you.
Total Focus: Without the social distractions, you can hone in on your own game. You can go through your full pre-shot routine and concentrate solely on the shot at hand. This is where you can work on swing thoughts, experiment with different shots, and pay close attention to your misses without feeling like you're holding anyone up.
Perfect Practice: A quiet course is your personal laboratory. Playing alone gives you the freedom to drop a second ball in the fairway after a bad drive or spend extra time practicing those tricky 40-yard pitch shots. It’s like a full-scale practice session but with real-world consequences and conditions.
Pace of Play Your Way: As a single, you control the tempo. You can play as fast as you like, zipping around the course if it's open, or take your time to appreciate the surroundings if no one is pushing you from behind. The freedom from someone else’s rhythm is liberating.
Mental Reset: Sometimes, the best part of golf is simply being outside, walking, and disconnecting. A solo round can be a meditative experience - a four-hour walk in a beautiful park where you just happen to be hitting a golf ball.
Getting on the Course: A Single's Guide to Tee Times
This is often the first hurdle that intimidates golfers looking to play alone. How do you get a tee time for just one person? You have several great options, and pro shops are almost always eager to help you get on the course.
1. Pick Up the Phone
The simplest and most effective method is to call the pro shop directly. This old-school approach works wonders. Just ask them a straightforward question:
“Hi, I’m a single golfer looking to play this morning. Do you have any openings I could join, or a spot on your waitlist?”
Golf courses want to fill every slot on their tee sheet. A single is a valuable puzzle piece that can turn a two-ball or three-ball into a full group. They are usually more than happy to find a space for you. They’ll either give you a specific time to join an existing group or advise you on the best time to show up as a walk-on.
2. Use Online Booking Systems
Many courses use online systems where you can book tee times directly. While some don't allow a "party of one" booking on an empty time, they almost always let a single book a spot in a group that already has two or three players. Scan the tee sheet for groups that aren't full and grab your slot. It’s a direct and low-interaction way to get your round scheduled.
3. The Walk-On Strategy
If you have a flexible schedule, just showing up at the course can be a great option, especially on weekdays or during off-peak hours (early morning or mid-afternoon). Go into the pro shop, be friendly, and let them know you're a single ready to play whenever a spot opens up. Bring a book or be ready to hit a small bucket of balls on the range. The starter is the master of the tee sheet, and they are experts at fitting singles in. Patience and a good attitude go a long way.
"Hi, I'm the Single": How to Join a Group Smoothly
The moment of truth arrives when the starter calls your name and gestures toward a group of strangers on the first tee. This is where a little social anxiety can kick in. Don't worry, 99% of golfers are friendly and welcome an addition to their group. Here's how to make it feel natural.
The First Tee Introduction
Keep it simple and confident. Walk up, make eye contact, and offer a handshake with a friendly smile.
"Hey folks, looks like I'm joining you today. I'm [Your Name], nice to meet you."
That's it. That's all you need. They'll introduce themselves, you'll figure out honors, and you're off. You don't need to apologize for being a single or give them your life story and handicap history. A simple, confident introduction sets a positive tone for the entire round.
Finding the Right Vibe
Once you're playing, try to read the room and match the group's energy.
- Are they chatty and conversational? Feel free to engage, talk about the course, work, family, or anything else that comes up.
- Are they more focused and quiet? Respect that. Keep the conversation to golf-related topics. "Great shot," "Nice putt," or "Tough break" are all you need. You're not there to force a friendship.
- Are they competitive and playing a match? Ask them about the game and what the stakes are so you understand the dynamic. Offer to keep score if it helps, but otherwise, just stay out of their lane while playing your own game.
The golden rule is just to be a good playing partner: be supportive when they hit a good shot, be silent when they hit a bad one, and always be ready to play when it's your turn.
Etiquette and Pace of Play: A Single's Best Friend
When you join a group, your primary responsibility is to contribute to a good pace and follow standard etiquette. This is the fastest way to earn your playing partners' respect.
Cart Etiquette
If you're sharing a cart, practice "cart golf." Drop your partner off at their ball first, then proceed to yours. While they're hitting, grab a couple of potential clubs and start planning your own shot. This helps the whole group move efficiently.
Pace Your-Self (Pace of a group)
Even though you're a single, you are now playing at the pace of the group. The number one rule is to be ready to hit when it's your turn. Have your club selected, your pre-shot routine in mind, and step up to the ball ready to go. Don’t wait until it’s your turn to start figuring out the yardage.
Putting Green Protocol
On the green, don't stand in anyone's line and be mindful of your shadow. If you're the first to hole out, offer to tend the flagstick for the others. A simple, "You want me to get that?" shows you’re a team player.
When to Wave Through or Play an Extra Ball
If you’re playing alone and not part of a group, your superpower is speed.
- If you catch up to the group in front of you, they should offer to let you play through. If they don't, it's okay to wait patiently for a bit. If it's clear you're much faster, you can politely ask at the a tee box: "Do you mind if I scoot by on this hole?"
- If the course behind you is wide open, feel free to use the time for valuable practice. Hit a second drive. Drop a couple of balls around the green and have a chip-off with yourself. This turns your solo round into a world-class practice session.
Final Thoughts
Playing golf as a single transforms the game into a personal journey. From the strategy of getting a tee time to the simple confidence of joining a new group, it’s a skill set that unlocks more opportunities to play, improve, and enjoy the serenity of the course. Embrace the solitude, use the time to focus, and you’ll find it’s one of the best ways to experience golf.
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