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How to Play Golf with Kids

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

Bringing your kids into the world of golf can be one of the most rewarding experiences, creating memories that last a lifetime. But to make it a positive experience, you need a different game plan than playing with your usual partners. This guide will walk you through setting up a fun and stress-free day on the course with your kids, covering everything from preparation at home to kid-friendly rules that keep smiles on their faces.

Before You Even Leave the House: Setting the Stage for Fun

A great day of golf with your child begins long before you arrive at the first tee. Success is all about preparation and mindset - mostly yours. By laying the groundwork properly, you set everyone up to have a blast, regardless of how many shots are hit.

Manage Expectations (Yours and Theirs)

This is the most important part of the entire process. The goal for your first few (or many) outings is connection, not correction. You are not there to teach them the perfect golf swing or the intricate rules of St. Andrews. You are there to share an experience, spend quality time outdoors, and hit a ball with a stick. That’s it.

Let go of any preconceived notions about what the day *should* look like. They will whiff. They will get distracted by a butterfly. They might only want to play two holes before deciding driving the golf cart is the main event. All of this is not just okay, it's part of the win. If you go in expecting a quiet, focused round, you're setting yourself up for frustration. Go in expecting a little chaos and a lot of laughter, and you’ll have a wonderful time.

Get the Right Gear (And It's Not What You Think)

You don't need a top-of-the-line, 14-club set for a child. A simple starter set with a driver/wood, a a mid-iron (like a 7), a wedge, and a putter is more than enough. Many courses rent junior sets, and affordable options are plentiful online. For very young kids, even a single plastic club can do the trick.

The real essential gear is about comfort and enjoyment:

  • Snacks and Drinks: This is non-negotiable. A well-timed granola bar or juice box can turn a budding meltdown into renewed energy and enthusiasm. Pack more than you think you’ll need.
  • Sun Protection: Sunscreen, hats, and sunglasses are a must. A sunburn is a guaranteed way to make sure they never want to come back.
  • Comfortable Clothes and Shoes: Don’t worry about collared shirts and golf shoes yet. Let them wear sneakers and comfortable athletic clothes. The less they have to complain about, the more fun they’ll have.

Talk the Talk: A Simple Preview

Frame the outing in a way they can understand. Instead of "We're going to play a round of golf," try something like, "We're going to a huge park with really short grass, and we get to drive a special cart and hit balls as far as we can!" Setting this fun, low-pressure expectation beforehand can make a huge difference in their attitude when they arrive.

Your First Outing: The Range or a Par-3

Resist the urge to throw your kid straight onto a championship 18-hole course. The journey into golf should be gradual, starting where the pressure is low and the fun factor is high.

Start Small: The Driving Range is Your Friend

The driving range is the perfect starting point. There's no pressure to keep up a pace of play, no lost balls, and there's the instant gratification of hitting a bucket of balls over and over. You can focus entirely on the simple act of making contact.

A simple game for the range: "The Tee Castle." Instead of just one tee, build a tiny "castle" of three or four and let them demolish it with the driver. It turns a miss into a fun explosion of tees and focuses them on a big, easy-to-hit target.

The "Rules" of Fun: Safety First

For kids, the rules of golf shouldn't be about etiquette but about safety. Boil it down to two simple points:

  1. Stand in the "Safe Zone": Always stand behind the person who is swinging. Act it out and show them where that is.
  2. Wait for Your Turn: We only hit when it's our turn and when nobody is in front of us.

That's all you need to start. Explaining concepts like honor or replacing divots can wait. Safety is the one area where you are the firm but friendly instructor.

The First Swing: One Simple Thought

As a coach, I see parents overwhelm their kids with technical advice. "Keep your left arm straight," "turn your hips," "don't lift your head." This is the fastest way to kill the fun. For their first time, give them one, and only one, thought.

Good starting points:

  • "Just try to brush the grass with the club."
  • "Tap the ball like you're playing mini-golf."
  • "Point the end of the club at the ball and SWING!"

Celebrate contact, not results. A dribbler that goes ten feet is a victory. Praise their effort and their swing, no matter where the ball goes. Enthusiastic high-fives are mandatory.

Ready for the Course: Games and Guidelines

Once they've got the bug at the range_now_ you can think about getting on the course. But here again, the "course" you choose and the way you play on it should be modified for kids.

Choosing the Right Venue

Look for a par-3 course, an executive course (a mix of par 3s and 4s), or simply call your local course and ask to play three or four holes during a quiet, late-afternoon time. Starting on the 10th tee in the evening is often a great strategy to find an empty course. The goal isn't to play 9 or 18, it's to experience what it's like to play a hole from start to finish.

Bend the Rules, Widen the Fun

Standard rules of golf are not meant for six-year-olds. Create a version of the game that prioritizes momentum and eliminates frustration:

  • Tee It Up Everywhere: Let them hit off a tee in the fairway, in the rough, anywhere but the green. It gives them the best chance for solid contact and builds confidence.
  • The "Forget-About-It" Shot: A whiff doesn't count. A topped shot into the lake is forgotten. Just drop another ball and try again. This isn't a scorecard round, it’s a feel-good round.
  • Pick-Up After 'Double Par': Institute a maximum score on every hole. If it’s a par 3, the max score is 6. Once they hit their sixth shot, they pick up the ball and you move on. This prevents the dreaded 15-shot hole that grinds all fun to a halt.
  • Best Ball/Scramble: Play as a team. You both hit a tee shot, and then you both play your next shot from the location of the best tee shot. It makes them feel like part of a team and lets them hit from good locations all day.

Keeping Kids Engaged for the Long Haul

If you play your cards right, a fun day can turn into a genuine interest. The key is to keep it fresh and give them a sense of ownership over the experience.

Let Them Take the Wheel

Little things mean a lot. Let them drive the cart (always with your direct supervision, foot on the brake!). Let them pick the snack at the turn. Let them decide which club to use, even if it’s the wrong one. Giving them small choices makes them feel involved and in control, not just dragged along.

Seek Out Variety

Golf doesn't always have to be at the "big course." Mix it up:

  • Go to the putting green and have putting contests.
  • Spend 30 minutes at the chipping green seeing who can get closest to the hole.
  • Don't underestimate the power of mini-golf for teaching the basics of aiming and pace in a fun environment.

Know When To Call It a Day

Pay attention to their energy levels. The moment you sense the fun is fading, that's your cue to wrap it up. Forcing another hole is a recipe for disaster. End on a high note. Finish with a great shot, then declare "Perfect! Let's go get some ice cream!" They’ll remember the fun finish, not the fact that they only played four holes.

Final Thoughts

Introducing your child to golf is a long game. The focus should always be on sharing your passion through patience, encouragement, and a heavy dose of fun. If they walk away from the course eager to come back, you've done everything right - the good golf shots will come in time.

While you're playing the role of patient Caddie and coach for your child, managing your own game can become an afterthought. As a tool built to simplify golf, we designed Caddie AI to help in precisely these situations. When your attention is split, you can get a quick, smart strategy for your own shot in seconds, taking the guesswork out of club selection or how to play a tough lie. It allows you to stay focused on what really matters - enjoying the day - _without_ completely sacrificing your own play.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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