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How to Relax the Wrists in a Golf Swing

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

A death grip on your club and stiff wrists are silent killers of power and consistency in your golf swing. You can have a perfect setup and great body rotation, but if your wrists are locked up with tension, you’re severing the final link in the power chain. This guide will show you exactly why that tension is so destructive and provide clear, practical techniques to get your hands and wrists working freely, unlocking the fluid, powerful swing you’re capable of.

Why Tense Wrists Wreck Your Golf Swing

Before we learn how to relax, we need to understand what we're fighting against. Tension in the hands and forearms isn't just a minor issue, it sabotages your swing in three major ways.

1. You Lose Huge Amounts of Clubhead Speed

Imagine cracking a whip. The handle moves relatively slowly, but the tip of the whip creates a loud crack because of the incredible speed it generates at the very end. Your golf swing is a similar sequence of motion, also known as a kinetic chain. Power builds from the ground up, through the rotation of your hips and torso, down your arms, and is finally multiplied and released through your wrists at impact.

If your wrists are stiff and rigid, you break that chain. Instead of whipping the club through the ball, you're essentially dragging it. Stiff wrists prevent that final, free-swinging release of energy, transforming your swing from a "snap" into a sluggish shove. This is the primary reason why golfers who look like they swing easy still hit the ball a long way - they use their wrists correctly to generate effortless speed where it matters most.

2. Your Clubface Control Becomes Unreliable

Have you ever felt like you're consciously trying to "steer" the clubface through impact to get the ball to go straight? This is a classic sign of wrist and forearm tension. When your muscles are tight, your ability to naturally rotate the clubface from open (at the top) to square (at impact) is severely hampered.

Golfers with tight wrists often try to correct this by manipulating the club with their hands, leading to wild inconsistencies. One time you might hold the face open and produce a big slice. The next, you over-correct and snap-hook it left. A supple, relaxed pair of wrists allows the club to release and square up naturally and repeatedly, without you needing to think about it.

3. Your Tempo and Rhythm Fall Apart

A good golf swing has a certain rhythm, a smooth and connected flow from start to finish. Tension is the enemy of rhythm. A tight grip leads to a jerky takeaway, a rushed transition from backswing to downswing, and a disconnected feeling throughout the motion. It's impossible to have great tempo when your hands and forearms are braced for impact from the moment you address the ball. Relaxing your wrists and hands is often the first step to finding a smoother, more efficient swing tempo.

The Target Feel: Relaxed vs. Flaccid Wrists

It’s important to understand the goal here. "Relaxed wrists" doesn’t mean your hands should feel like they're holding a wet noodle. Your wrists still need a degree of structure and tone to support the club and transfer energy. The feeling we are after is more accurately described as supple or responsive.

Think of it like a perfectly oiled hinge on a heavy door. It’s not flimsy, but it moves freely without resistance. In the golf swing, your wrists should be free enough to respond to the motion of your arms and the turning of your body. They should hinge naturally on the way back and unhinge naturally on the way down without you having to consciously fire them. This creates the "lag" that you see in a Tour player's swing - and that lag is a direct result of relaxed, responsive wrists, not a forced position.

Your First Line of Defense: The Grip

The number one cause of tense wrists is, without a doubt, a tense grip. If you strangle the club at address, that tension radiates straight up your forearms, and a fluid swing a becomes impossible. Getting your grip pressure right is fundamental.

  • The Toothpaste Tube Analogy: This is a classic for a reason. Imagine holding a tube of toothpaste without the cap on. Your goal is to hold it firmly enough that you have full control, but not so tight that any toothpaste would squeeze out. This is the ideal amount of pressure.
  • The 1-to-10 Pressure Scale: If a 10 is gripping as hard as you can and a 1 is barely touching the club, you should aim for a 3 or 4. Your hands should be secure, but you should never see white knuckles.
  • Hold It in Your Fingers: As discussed in how to hold the golf club, you want the grip to rest primarily in the fingers of your lead hand (left hand for a righty), running from the a of your index finger down to the base of your pinky. Holding the club in your palm forces you to squeeze to control it, which is a fast track to tension. A proper finger grip allows for a light, secure hold that promotes wrist freedom.

The Pre-Shot Routine: Releasing Tension Before the Swing

How you prepare for the shot is just as important as the swing itself. Use your pre-shot routine to actively dissipate tension.

  • Check Your Tension Hotspots: Before you take the club back, do a quick mental scan. Is your jaw clenched? Are your shoulders up by your ears? Are an your forearms flexed? Consciously tell yourself to relax your jaw, drop your shoulders, and soften your forearms.
  • Introduce the Waggle: The pre-shot waggle you see nearly every pro do is not a nervous tic, it has a purpose. By gently waggling the club back and forth, you feel the weight of the clubhead. This simple motion serves as a constant reminder for your hands and wrists to stay soft and mobile, preventing them from freezing up before you start the real swing.
  • Breathe: Don't underestimate the power of your breath. A single, deep, slow breath right before you take the club away can trigger a physiological relaxation response through your body, calming nerves and easing muscle tension.

Drills for Building Supple, Active Wrists

Developing the right feel requires practice. These simple drills can be done at the range or even in your backyard to train your wrists to work correctly.

Drill 1: The "Whoosh" Drill

This is a fantastic drill for developing speed and teaching you when to release the club.

  1. Take one of your irons and turn it upside down, so you are holding the shaft just below the clubhead.
  2. Take your normal stance and make smooth, continuous practice swings.
  3. Listen carefully for the "whoosh" sound the thin shaft makes as it cuts through the air. Your goal is to make the loudest "whoosh" sound at the very bottom of your swing arc, right where the ball would be. In order to do this, you have to let your wrists release freely. If you try to guide or muscle the club, the whoosh will happen too early or be very faint.

Drill 2: Right-Hand-Only Swings

This isolates your trailing hand (right hand for a righty) and forces it to learn its proper role in generating power through release.

  1. Take a short iron, like a wedge or 9-iron, and a few balls.
  2. Grip the club with only your right hand and make small, half-swings focusing on making solid contact.
  3. You will quickly find it’s nearly impossible to hit the ball with any authority without letting your wrist hinge naturally on the backswing and unhinge ("release") through the hitting area. This drill provides incredible feedback on what a natural, powerful release feels like.

Drill 3: The Pump Drill

This drill helps you feel and retain wrist laguwithout forcing it - which is exactly how you want it to happen.

  1. Take your normal setup and start your backswing, stopping at the top.
  2. From the top, begin your downswing but stop when your hands get about waist-high. Hold that position for a second and notice the angle your relaxed wrists have created between your lead arm and the club shaft.
  3. From that waist-high position, return to the an of your swing.
  4. Repeat this "pumping" motion two or three times to embed the feeling of a loaded wrist angle, then on the final pump, continue the swing down and through to hit the ball.

Final Thoughts

Learning how to relax the wrists is really about learning how to use them with maximum efficiency. It isn't about weakness or a loss of control, it’s about allowing them to function as speed-multiplying levers. By focusing on your grip pressure, embracing a pre-shot waggle, and committing to a few simple drills, you can transform your wrists from rigid rods into sources of effortless power.

Sometimes, all the swing thoughts can get jumbled, creating that mental tension which leads to physical tension. For these moments, personalized and immediate feedback can clear the fog. This is why we created Caddie AI. It acts as an on-demand golf expert in your pocket, providing simple, actionable advice on everything from diagnosing a complex lie to giving you a clear swing thought when you need it most, helping you play with confidence and a free-swinging motion.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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