Hearing a fellow golfer say they're 3 up can be confusing if you're only familiar with marking a total score on a card. This simple phrase is the language of match play, one of golf's most exciting and strategic formats. This guide will walk you through exactly what 3 up means, how match play scoring works, and how you can use that knowledge to become a smarter, more competitive golfer.
Match Play vs. Stroke Play: A Different Kind of Golf Game
Most of the golf you see on TV and likely play with your friends is stroke play. The goal is simple: count every single shot you take over 18 holes, and the person with the lowest total score at the end wins. A disastrous 9 on a single hole can ruin your entire round. In stroke play, every single shot counts equally towards one final number.
Match play, on the other hand, is a completely different animal. It’s a head-to-head contest where you compete against an opponent to win individual holes. Your total score for the round doesn't matter, all that matters is how many holes you win compared to your opponent. If you make a 4 and your opponent makes a 5 on a hole, you win that hole. It doesn't matter if you won it with a birdie or a bogey - a win is a win. Once the hole is over, you move to the next tee, and the contest starts fresh.
Think of it like this: stroke play is a marathon where your final time is everything. Match play is a series of 18 short sprints. You can lose one sprint by a lot, but shake it off and come back to win the next one. That catastrophic 9 that would derail a stroke play round? In match play, you just lose one hole, pick your ball up, and head to the next tee with a clean slate, down by one.
The Language of Match Play: Up, Down, and All Square
Because the total score an individual shoots is irrelevant, match play has its own unique scoring language to describe who is leading. This is where terms like "3 up" come from.
- Up: This means you are winning the match. If you are "1 up," you have won one more hole than your opponent. If you're "3 up," it means you've won three more holes than your opponent. For example, if you've won five holes and your opponent has only won two, you are "3 up."
- Down: This is the other side of the coin. If you're "3 down," it means your opponent is winning by three holes. They are "3 up" on you.
- All Square (AS): This is the term for a tied a match. If you and your opponent have won the same number of holes (or have halved every hole), the match is considered "All Square."
One bonus term you’ll often hear in tense matches is "Dormie." A player is dormie when they are leading by the same number of holes that remain in the round. For instance, if you are "3 up" with only three holes left to play (16, 17, and 18), you are "dormie 3". Your opponent cannot win - the best they can do is tie the match by winning every remaining hole. You only need to tie one of the last three holes to win the match outright.
Keeping Score: A Running Example
The best way to get a feel for "3 up" is to see how a match score progresses. Let's follow two fictional golfers, Sarah and Tom, through the first few holes of their match.
On the first tee: The match begins "All Square."
- Hole 1 (Par 4): Sarah makes a 4, and Tom makes a 5. Sarah wins the hole.
Match Score: Sarah is 1 up. - Hole 2 (Par 3): Both players make a 3. The hole is "halved" (tied). No one wins or loses the hole.
Match Score: Sarah remains 1 up. - Hole 3 (Par 5): Sarah makes a 6, and Tom saves his par with a 5. Tom wins the hole.
Match Score: The match returns to All Square (AS). - Hole 4 (Par 4): Sarah hits a great approach and makes her par 4. Tom finds a bunker and makes a 5. Sarah wins the hole.
Match Score: Sarah is 1 up. - Hole 5 (Par 4): Tom struggles again and makes a double bogey 6. Sarah's bogey 5 is good enough to win the hole.
Match Score: Sarah is 2 up. - Hole 6 (Par 5): Sarah plays a solid hole and makes a par 5. Tom threeputts and cards a 6.
Match Score: Sarah is now 3 up.
After six holes, Sarah has built a comfortable lead. She hasn't played spectacular golf, but she's played better than Tom on three holes, lost one, and tied two. Here, the phrase "3 up" perfectly describes the state of the match - it tells you who is in command without needing to know a single score they've made.
The Strategy: How the Score Changes Your Game Plan
Understanding the score isn't just about record-keeping, it's about strategy. Your approach to a shot should change dramatically depending on whether you are up, down, or all square. This is where match play becomes a fascinating game of chess on grass.
Strategy When You Are "3 Up"
When you have a lead like Sarah does, your mindset should shift from aggressive to defensive. You don't need to win more holes, you just need to not lose them. Your goal is to make your opponent beat you.
- Play for the middle of the green: Stop firing at tucked pins. A two-putt par is a fantastic result when you're 3 up. It forces your opponent to make a birdie to win the hole.
- Make conservative plays: Don't try to carry that fairway bunker or go for the par-5 in two over water. Put the ball in the safest position and let your opponent take the risks.
- Mirror your opponent: If your opponent hits their tee shot in the fairway, make sure you do the same. If they pump one into the woods, you can play much more carefully, even if it's just with an iron, knowing you have a huge advantage.
Think of it as protecting a lead in any other sport. You run the clock out by making patient, smart, high-percentage plays that limit major mistakes.
Strategy When You Are "3 Down"
If you're Tom, languishing at 3 down, the mentality is the complete opposite. You have to make something happen. Waiting for your opponent to make mistakes isn't a winning plan, you have to force the issue.
- Get aggressive: Now is the time to fire at those tucked pins. A miss might cost you another hole, but a par was likely going to lose or halve the hole anyway. You need birdies.
- Take aggressive lines: Cut the corner on that dogleg. Try to drive the green on that short par-4. You need to create opportunities for eagles and birdies. A bogey or double bogey doesn't hurt you much more than a par does at this point - in all cases, you're likely to lose the hole.
- Use your opponent's play as an opportunity: If Sarah hits hercU drive into the fairway on a par-5, that is your green light to pull a driver and try to get home in two. Playing for a safe par just gets you one hole closer to losing the match.
Being 3 down can be freeing in a way. The pressure is off, and you can swing without fear, because conservative play won't get you back in the game.
How a Match Ends: Concessions & Final Scores
Unlike stroke play, a match play contest rarely lasts all 18 holes. The match is over as soon as one player has an "insurmountable lead"–meaning they are up by more holes than there are left to play.
Using our example, if Sarah wins the next three holes, she would be "6 up" with only 9 holes remaining. The score would be displayed as "6 & 9." This means "6 up with 9 to play." If a match reaches "4 & 3," it means one player was 4 up with only 3 holes left, so the match ended on the 15th green.
You’ll also see "concessions" in match play. This is when a player verbally concedes a putt, a hole, or even the entire match to their opponent. Most often, you'll see short putts conceded. When your opponent has a 2-foot putt, you might simply say, "That's good," allowing them to pick up their ball without putting. It’s a custom of sportsmanship that keeps the game moving, but it can also be a strategic tool - sometimes a player will make their opponent putt a short one early in the match just to apply a little pressure.
Final Thoughts
Understanding that "3 up" means you're leading by three in a hole-by-hole competition is your first step into the wider, more strategic universe of match play. It transforms golf from a solo grind against yourself into a dynamic, head-to-head duel where every hole is a new battle, and your decisions matter just as much as your swing.
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