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How to Find Other Golfers to Play With

By Spencer Lanoue
July 24, 2025

Walking up to a pro shop and asking to be paired up can feel more nerve-wracking than a downhill 4-foot putt, but it opens up a world of new friendships and great rounds. Finding other golfers to play with is a common challenge, whether you're brand new to the game, just moved to a new town, or simply looking to expand your playing circle. This guide breaks down the simple, practical strategies you can use to consistently find great people to share the fairways with.

Embrace the Power of the Single Golfer

The most direct method is often the one golfers are most hesitant to try: just showing up to the course alone. Take it from a coach - pro shops love single golfers. You are a flexible piece of the puzzle that helps them fill out tee times and maximize their sheet. Calling the pro shop and saying, "Hi, I'm a single player looking to get out this afternoon. Do you have any twosomes or threesomes I could join?" is a totally normal and welcome request.

Once you get paired up, the next step is making a good first impression. Arrive a little early to warm up and be waiting at the first tee when your group arrives. A simple, friendly introduction goes a long way: "Hi, I'm [Your Name]. They've paired me with you guys today. Looking forward to it." A firm handshake and a smile sets a positive tone for the round.

During the round, your goal is to be the kind of person you'd want to play with. This has nothing to do with your score and everything to do with your attitude. Here’s how:

  • Mind the Pace: This is a top consideration. Be ready to hit when it's your turn, watch where shots land (both yours and others'), and walk with a purpose. Consistent pace equals a happy group.
  • Follow Pro Golf's Golden Rule: Compliment good shots. A simple "Great shot!" or "Nice putt!" builds camaraderie. Conversely, never offer unsolicited swing advice.
  • Manage Your Emotions: We all hit bad shots. It's okay to feel frustration, but avoid slamming clubs or letting one bad hole ruin the entire afternoon. Positivity, or at least emotional neutrality, is appreciated.
  • Offer to Help: Look for their ball if they hit one astray. Offer to rake the bunker if you're closer. Small acts of awareness show you're a team player.

If you genuinely enjoyed their company, don't be shy on the 18th green. A simple, "I really had a fantastic time playing with you guys today. If you're ever looking for another player, I'd love to join you again." Then, offer to exchange numbers. It's pressure-free and puts the ball in their court, but more often than not, you’ll be walking away with a new golf contact.

Utilize Your Local Club and Driving Range

Your local golf course and practice facilities are hubs of activity. They're more than just places to play, they are ready-made communities waiting for you to plug in. Most public and private courses have organized clubs specifically designed to foster competition and connection.

Look for the course’s "Men's Club" or "Women's Golf Association." These groups typically run weekly events or tournaments. Don't let the word "tournament" scare you - these are almost always handicapped events where golfers of all skill levels can compete. You pay a small entry fee, and they handle the T-Times and pairings. It’s a structured, automatic way to meet a dozen new golfers over a summer.

Don't Overlook the Practice Green and Driving Range

The driving range is not just for practice, it's a social space. If you become a regular, you'll start seeing the same people. Try practicing at a consistent time each week, like every Tuesday after work. Familiarity breeds comfort, making it easier to start a conversation.

You don't need a clever opening line. A bit of shared experience is all it takes. Comment on the nice weather, or if you see someone striping it, a simple, "You're hitting those really well today," can be enough to start a chat. On the putting green, you can ask, "How are they rolling today?" Often, that’s all it takes to break the ice.

Another excellent option is to sign up for group clinics. It’s a low-pressure environment where everyone is working on their game. You’ll be alongside golfers of a similar ability level, and learning together is a naturalbond-builder. You get to improve your chip shots while finding someone to go play nine holes with afterwards to test them out.

Go Digital: The Modern Way to Find a Game

The digital age has made connecting with other golfers easier than ever. If showing up to the course alone isn't your style, your smartphone is your best tool. Hundreds of thousands of golfers are in the same boat as you, and many are using apps and online communities to link up.

Golf-Specific Social & GPS Apps

Many golf GPS and handicap-tracking apps have built-in social features. Apps like TheGrint, 18Birdies, and Supreme Golf are part game tracker, part social network.

These apps often have a "Find a Round" or "Community" feature where players can post that they’re looking for a game. The process is usually very straightforward:

  1. You search for available rounds or T-Times in your area.
  2. You see a listing from another user, for example: "Looking for 1 more player Saturday at 9:00 AM at Riverwood Course."
  3. You signal your interest or join the group directly through the app.

It cuts through the awkwardness by creating a clear, intention-based platform. Everyone on there is looking for the same thing you are: a golf game.

Local Online Communities

Outside of dedicated golf apps, your favorite social media platforms are brimming with local golfers. Facebook Groups are a goldmine for this. Search for "[Your City Name] Golfers" or "[Your County] Golf Club". You’ll likely find active groups where people post daily looking for playing partners. You can either respond to a post or create your own: "Hi everyone, I'm new to the area and looking to get out for a round this weekend. My handicap is around a 15, and I play a pretty relaxed game. Let me know if anyone has an open spot!"

Similarly, platforms like Reddit (check out the r/golf subreddit or your local city’s subreddit) and Meetup.com have communities and groups dedicated to golf. These attract golfers of all ages and abilities and often host regular, organized outings you can simply sign up for.

Look Beyond the Links

Sometimes your next steady golf partner isn’t at the course at all - they’re already in your existing social or professional network. You just haven’t found them yet.

Tap into Your Professional and Social Networks

The old saying about business being done on the golf course exists for a reason. Don't be afraid to put some feelers out at work. Mention your love for the game in conversation with coworkers. You might be surprised to find out that Sarah from accounting plays to a single-digit handicap or that your boss plays every weekend. Sending a casual note in a company-wide chat like, "Any fellow golfers interested in a laid-back Friday afternoon round?" could be all it takes to form a new foursome.

Equally important, ask your current friends! Even if they don’t play, they might know someone who does. The simple question, "Hey, do you happen to have any friends who are into golf? I’m looking for new people to play with," can be surprisingly effective.

Become the Organizer

Perhaps the most powerful shift you can make is going from someone looking for a game to being the one who makes the game happens. Instead of waiting for an invitation, be the invitation. Book a tee time for a twosome or threesome and then reach out to people: "Hey, I booked a time for this Saturday morning at 10 AM. I have an open spot if you’re interested in joining." This simple change in approach makes it easy for others to say yes and instantly positions you as a valuable person to know in their golf circle.

Final Thoughts

Finding new golf partners is more about willingness than anything else. By combining the old-school met `hod of showing up at the course with modern tools like apps and online groups, you can quickly fill your calendar. Be open, be friendly, and most importantly, remember to be the type of partner you'd want to play with every week.

As you get out there and meet new players, one of the best ways to play with confidence is by eliminating uncertainty on the course. That’s why we built Caddie AI. When you're paired with new players and facing a tough shot, you can get instant, expert advice on club selection or strategy right from your pocket. It removes guesswork, helping you make a smart decision so you can focus on making a good swing and enjoying the company.

Spencer has been playing golf since he was a kid and has spent a lifetime chasing improvement. With over a decade of experience building successful tech products, he combined his love for golf and startups to create Caddie AI - the world's best AI golf app. Giving everyone an expert level coach in your pocket, available 24/7. His mission is simple: make world-class golf advice accessible to everyone, anytime.

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